Stiff upper lip explained

A person who is said to have a stiff upper lip displays fortitude and stoicism in the face of adversity, or exercises great self-restraint in the expression of emotion.[1] [2] The phrase is most commonly heard as part of the idiom "keep a stiff upper lip", and has traditionally been used to describe an attribute of British people in remaining resolute and unemotional when faced with adversity.[1], hence the saying keep a "stiff" upper lip.[3]

Examples

The following have often been cited as exemplifying the "stiff upper lip".

Origins

The idea of the stiff upper lip is traced back to Ancient Greece – to the Spartans, whose cult of discipline and self-sacrifice was a source of inspiration to the English public school system; and to the Stoics. Stoic ideas were adopted by the Romans, particularly the Emperor Marcus Aurelius, who wrote, "If you are distressed by any external thing, it is not this thing which disturbs you, but your own judgment about it. And it is in your power to wipe out that judgment now." The concept reached England in the 1590s, and featured in the plays of William Shakespeare. His tragic hero Hamlet says, "There is nothing either good or bad but thinking makes it so".[1]

Poems that feature a memorable evocation of Victorian stoicism and a stiff upper lip include Rudyard Kipling's "If—" and W. E. Henley's "Invictus". The phrase became symbolic of the British people, and particularly of those who were students of the English public school system during the Victorian era. Such schools were heavily influenced by stoicism, and aimed to instil a code of discipline and devotion to duty in their pupils through 'character-building' competitive sports (as immortalised in the poem "Vitai Lampada"), corporal punishments and cold showers.[5]

References

  1. http://www.phrases.org.uk/meanings/keep-a-stiff-upper-lip.html Keep a stiff upper lip
  2. http://www.bbc.com/culture/story/20160408-is-the-stiff-upper-lip-a-myth "The myth of the stiff upper lip"
  3. Web site: Stiff upper lip . World Wide Words . 2006-08-19 . 2013-02-04.
  4. News: Ian Hislop's Stiff Upper Lip. Metro. 2 October 2016.
  5. http://www.icons.org.uk/theicons/collection/stiff-upper-lip/biography/spartans-and-stoics-with-stiff-upper-lips "Spartans and Stoics – Stiff Upper Lip – Icons of England"

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