When I'm Gone (3 Doors Down song) explained

When I'm Gone
Cover:3 doors down when i'm gone.png
Type:single
Artist:3 Doors Down
Album:Away from the Sun
Length:4:20
Label:
Prev Title:Be Like That
Prev Year:2001
Next Title:The Road I'm On
Next Year:2003

"When I'm Gone" is a song by American rock band 3 Doors Down. It was released on September 23, 2002, as the lead single from their second album, Away from the Sun. It peaked at number four on the Billboard Hot 100 chart in April 2003. The song also spent seventeen weeks atop the Billboard Hot Mainstream Rock Tracks chart from November 2002 through March 2003, becoming one of the longest-running number-one singles on that chart.[1] The song also peaked at number two on the Hot Modern Rock Tracks chart almost reaching number one by one spot from Queens of the Stone Age's "No One Knows" on the issue dated February 15, 2003. It spent one week atop the Top 40 Mainstream chart for one week on May 3, 2003, and also peaked at number three on the Adult Top 40 chart.

Background and meaning

"When I'm Gone" was written by Brad Arnold, Matthew Roberts, Todd Harrell and Christopher Henderson. "There are only a few songs we’ve written on the road and 'When I’m Gone' is the only hit we’ve written on the road," Todd Harrell said on the band's official website.[2] "We were playing it in Europe and could immediately tell it was something special. From day one, it got the crowd up. I always knew it would do well," Harrell continued.

Brad Arnold wrote the song thinking of unconditional love, for when being removed from loved one by miles, or time, or other obstacles. "When I'm Gone" does not necessarily mean being gone permanently. "It's asking a question, just please love me when I'm gone. And not just like when I'm dead and gone, but when I'm gonna come back. And that's kind of one thing it's about. But at the same time it's kind of about unconditional love. It's a lot of different statements it's asking of the person in that song. And it's like just the fulfillment of those different needs for every situation that it mentions. So I guess that song is just about needing someone really to be there for you unconditionally, and when you're gone," Arnold said of the song.[3]

Music video

There are two music videos for the song. The official music video was directed by The Emperor. It features the band performing live on the USS George Washington in the Mediterranean Sea on October 2, 2002.[4] Although the lyrics don't have anything to do with the navy or war, the music video was dedicated to all military personnel serving in the United States military.

The original video features the band members in a swamp, being buried alive while playing.[5]

Track listings

Canadian CD single[6]

  1. "When I'm Gone" – 4:15
  2. "Living a Lie" – 3:35

European CD single[7]

  1. "When I'm Gone" – 4:15
  2. "Changes" – 3:56
  3. "Living a Lie" – 3:35
  4. "Pop Song" – 3:12

Australian CD single[8]

  1. "When I'm Gone" (album version) – 4:20
  2. "Changes" – 3:56
  3. "Living a Lie" – 3:35
  4. "Pop Song" – 3:12

Charts

Weekly charts

Chart (2002–2003)Peak
position
Canada (Nielsen SoundScan)[9] 10
Canada Radio (Nielsen BDS)[10] 6
Canada Rock (Nielsen BDS)1

Year-end charts

Chart (2003)Position
US Billboard Hot 100[12] 5
US Adult Top 40 (Billboard)[13] 4
US Mainstream Top 40 (Billboard)10
US Modern Rock Tracks (Billboard)[14] 13

Release history

Region!scope="col"
DateFormat(s)Label(s)
United StatesSeptember 23, 2002[15]
November 18, 2002[16]
AustraliaNovember 25, 2002CDUniversal[17]

Notes and References

  1. [Joel Whitburn|Whitburn, Joel]
  2. Web site: Official Site. Union. Wonderful. 3 Doors Down. en. September 17, 2019.
  3. Web site: When I'm Gone by 3 Doors Down - Songfacts. Songfacts. www.songfacts.com. en. September 8, 2019.
  4. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pFq1eT9tMJ4 3 Doors Down - When I'm Gone
  5. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pDxgCWiSnkE
  6. When I'm Gone. 3 Doors Down. 2003. Canadian CD single liner notes. Universal Records. 4400194852.
  7. When I'm Gone. 3 Doors Down. 2003. European CD single liner notes. Universal Records. 019 484-2.
  8. When I'm Gone. 3 Doors Down. 2003. Australian CD single liner notes. Universal Records. 0194842.
  9. Web site: 3 Doors Down Chart History (Hot Canadian Digital Song Sales). Billboard. October 14, 2019.
  10. Book: Lwin, Nanda. Nanda Lwin. 2003. The Essential 2002 Chart Yearbook. Music Data Canada. 8, 64. 1-896594-15-8.
  11. Most-Played Modern Rock Songs of 2002. Airplay Monitor. 10. 51. 44. December 20, 2002.
  12. Web site: Billboard Top 100 – 2003. Billboardtop100of.com. January 30, 2020.
  13. Year in Music. Billboard. 115. 52. YE-80. December 27, 2003. December 18, 2023.
  14. Year in Music: Hot Modern Rock Tracks. Billboard. 115. 52. YE-75. December 27, 2003. December 18, 2023.
  15. Going for Adds. Radio & Records. 1471. 33. September 20, 2002. May 6, 2021.
  16. Going for Adds. Radio & Records. 1479. 22. November 15, 2002. May 6, 2021.
  17. Web site: The ARIA Report: New Releases Singles – Week Commencing 25th November 2002. ARIA. 26. November 25, 2002. dead. https://webarchive.nla.gov.au/awa/20080222222423/http://pandora.nla.gov.au/pan/23790/20030107-0000/Issue665.pdf. February 22, 2008. May 6, 2021.