Tryin' to Live My Life Without You explained

Trying to Live My Life Without You
Cover:Trying_to_Live_My_Life_Without_You_-_Otis_Clay.jpg
Type:single
Artist:Otis Clay
Album:Trying to Live My Life Without You
B-Side:Let Me Be the One
Released:December 1972
Genre:R&B
Length:2:50
Label:Hi
Tryin' to Live My Life Without You
Cover:Tryin'_to_Live_My_Life_Without_You_-_Bob_Seger.jpg
Type:single
Artist:Bob Seger & the Silver Bullet Band
Album:Nine Tonight
B-Side:Brave Strangers (Live)
Released:August 25, 1981
Recorded:October 6, 1980
Genre:Rock
Length:4:04
Label:Capitol
Producer:Bob Seger, Punch Andrews
Prev Title:The Horizontal Bop
Prev Year:1981
Next Title:Feel Like a Number
Next Year:1981

"Trying to Live My Life Without You" or "Tryin' to Live My Life Without You" is a song written by Eugene Frank Williams, originally popularized by soul singer Otis Clay. In early 1973 it reached #102 on the Billboard Bubbling Under chart. On February 17, 1973, Clay performed the song on Soul Train.[1] It has since been covered by several other artists, most notably Bob Seger on his 1981 Nine Tonight album, Dr. Feelgood on their 1982 Fast Women & Slow Horses album, Brinsley Schwarz and at live performances by The California Honeydrops.

Writing

The song is sung from the point of view of a man who is addressing his former lover. During the song's verses, the narrator tells of various habits he has had over his lifetime, such as smoking "five packs of cigarettes a day", drinking "four or five bottles of wine."and womanizing with many young women. In the song, he states that breaking those former habits was difficult, but not nearly as difficult as getting over the girl and forgetting the love they shared.

Chart performance

Chart (1973)Peak
position
102
U.S. Billboard Hot Soul Singles[2] 24
U.S. Cash Box Top 100 [3] 70

Bob Seger version

Bob Seger's cover of the song is the most successful version of the song, reaching number five on the pop singles charts. It is known for Seger's spoken prelude on top of the bassline: "Alright, you guys feel funky tonight? ... This is an old Memphis song, old Memphis song...." The Nine Tonight liner notes claim that Seger's saxophone player, Alto Reed, played all the saxophones heard on that song, at the same time. Most likely this is possible from studio overdubbing on top of the live performance.

Record World said it is a "soulful rocker that captures Seger at his best."[4]

Chart performance

Weekly charts

Chart (1981–1982)Peak
position
Canadian RPM 11
U.S. Billboard Hot 100[5] 5
U.S. Billboard Top Rock Tracks2
U.S. Cash Box Top 1008

Year-end charts

Chart (1981)Rank
Canada[6] 66
U.S. Cash Box[7] 81

Notes and References

  1. Web site: Watch Soul Train Season 2 Episode 20 Online . SideReel.com . 1973-02-17 . 2016-10-07.
  2. Book: Whitburn, Joel . Top R&B/Hip-Hop Singles: 1942-2004. Joel Whitburn . 2004 . Record Research . 122.
  3. Web site: Cash Box Top 100 1/20/73. 11 December 2014. 11 August 2017.
  4. Record World. August 25, 1981. 1. 2023-03-01. Hits of the Week.
  5. Joel Whitburn's Top Pop Singles 1955-1990 -
  6. Web site: Item Display - RPM - Library and Archives Canada . Collectionscanada.gc.ca . 2016-10-07.
  7. Web site: Cash Box YE Pop Singles - 1981. 11 November 2014. 11 August 2017.