The Order of the Good Death explained

The Order of the Good Death is a death acceptance organization founded in 2011 by mortician and author Caitlin Doughty. The group advocates for natural burial and embracing human mortality.

Along with Doughty, members include Sarah Chavez,[1] Director of The Order of the Good Death, Megan Rosenbloom, Director of Death Salon, and Amber Carvaly, Director of Undertaking LA. Other notable members are artist and monument-maker Greg Lundgren, TED speaker Jae Rhim Lee, alternative funeral home director Jeff Jorgenson, artist Landis Blair,[1] forensic pathologist Judy Melinek,[1] author and photographer Paul Koudounaris,[1] and other death professionals, artists and academics.

The group held its first "death salon" in Los Angeles in 2013. Another salon was held in 2014 at St Bartholomew's Hospital Pathology Museum in London by museum curator Carla Valentine.

The group took its name from the Brazilian Order of Our Lady of the Good Death.

Death-positive movement

The term "death positive" was popularized by Caitlin Doughty as a play on the term sex positive. The death-positive movement is a social and philosophical movement that encourages people to speak openly about death, dying, and corpses. The movement seeks to eliminate the silence around death-related topics, decrease anxiety surrounding death, and encourages more diversity in end-of-life care options available to the public.[2]

However, the ideas behind the movement have existed much longer.[3] The Order of the Good Death website lists the beliefs of the death-positive movement as being that cultural censorship of death and dying does more harm than good, that open discussions about death should be accepted as a natural human curiosity, that families should have full rights to care for the bodies of their loved ones without intervention from funeral businesses, and that end of life care should be diversified and performed in ways that cause less damage to the environment than our current practices.[4] The movement also strongly encourages participants to speak to their families about their own end of life wishes, even if they are young and healthy, and is critical of the commercialized funeral industry.[5] It also encourages people to express their feelings about death through art.[6] Other organizations such as Going with Grace,[7] founded by Death midwife Alua Arthur, are contributing to the movement through their online courses and End of Life Training Program.[8] In 2021, Arthur and Doughty launched a new online course, Mortal,[9] giving an opportunity for students to explore their own mortalities. End Well,[10] founded by physician and film producer Shoshana R. Ungerleider,[11] hosts an annual conference and media platform to highlight solutions to make the end of life experience more human-centered.[12] Death Over Dinner,[13] founded by restaurateur and author Michael Hebb along with Angel Grant, is an organization that encourages people to have dinner parties to talk about mortality which has facilitated more than 200,000 dinners.[14]

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Notes and References

  1. Web site: Order Members. The Order of the Good Death. Feb 7, 2020. February 18, 2020. https://web.archive.org/web/20200218180245/http://www.orderofthegooddeath.com/members. live.
  2. News: What is the Death Positive Movement?. 2015-06-09. TalkDeath. 2018-03-24. en-US. 2018-03-24. https://web.archive.org/web/20180324101720/http://www.talkdeath.com/death-positive-movement/. live.
  3. News: Death Positive Movement - The Order of the Good Death. The Order of the Good Death. 2018-03-24. en-US. 2018-03-24. https://web.archive.org/web/20180324103744/http://www.orderofthegooddeath.com/resources/death-positive-movement. live.
  4. Web site: Death Positive. The Order of the Good Death. 2019-05-17. 2019-05-20. https://web.archive.org/web/20190520063714/http://www.orderofthegooddeath.com/death-positive. live.
  5. Web site: Welcome the reaper: Caitlin Doughty and the 'death-positivity' movement. Kelly. Kim. 2017-10-27. the Guardian. en. 2018-03-24. 2018-03-24. https://web.archive.org/web/20180324223738/https://www.theguardian.com/books/2017/oct/27/caitlin-doughty-death-positivity. live.
  6. News: 5 Stunning Pieces Of Art That Prove Death Doesn't Have To Be Sad. 2018-02-08. Women's Health. 2018-03-24. en. 2018-03-24. https://web.archive.org/web/20180324163807/https://www.womenshealthmag.com/life/death-positivity-movement/slide/2. live.
  7. Web site: Going With Grace -. 2021-07-29. goingwithgrace.com. en-US. 2021-07-29. https://web.archive.org/web/20210729173332/https://goingwithgrace.com/. live.
  8. Web site: End of Life Training. 13 October 2020 . 2021-07-29. en-US. 2021-07-29. https://web.archive.org/web/20210729173348/http://goingwithgrace.com/trainingdetails/. live.
  9. Web site: MORTAL Live Well in Your Mortality. 2021-07-29. MORTAL. en. 2021-07-29. https://web.archive.org/web/20210729173332/https://www.mortalcourse.com/. live.
  10. News: Building a Better Death, One Conversation at a Time. 2019-06-26. Journal of the American Medical Association. 2020-04-09. en. 2021-10-16. https://web.archive.org/web/20211016021915/https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jama/article-abstract/2737239?guestAccessKey=74821cbb-6212-4186-b1b0-d721e96edca5. live.
  11. News: Will your life end well? An Oscar nominee and palliative care advocate on what's new in death. 2018-05-25. San Francisco Business Times. 2020-04-09. en. 2021-05-13. https://web.archive.org/web/20210513003808/https://www.bizjournals.com/sanfrancisco/news/2018/05/25/shoshana-ungerleider-palliative-care-oscar-nominee.html. live.
  12. News: Talking about death and dying doesn't have to be difficult. 2019-12-04. San Francisco Chronicle. 2020-04-09. en. 2020-03-04. https://web.archive.org/web/20200304004600/https://www.sfchronicle.com/opinion/openforum/article/Talking-about-death-and-dying-doesn-t-have-to-14879904.php. live.
  13. News: "I refuse to have a terrible death": the rise of the death wellness movement. 2019-05-07. Fast Company. 2020-04-09. en. 2020-10-26. https://web.archive.org/web/20201026190247/https://www.fastcompany.com/90337388/i-refuse-to-have-a-terrible-death-the-rise-of-the-death-wellness-movement. live.
  14. News: Discussing Death Over Dinner. 2016-04-16. The Atlantic. 2020-04-09. en. 2020-04-11. https://web.archive.org/web/20200411232118/https://www.theatlantic.com/health/archive/2016/04/discussing-death-over-dinner/478452/. live.