The Old Maid's Song Explained

The Old Maid's Song is an American folk song. It recounts the story of a woman whose younger sisters have married, while she has remained a spinster into middle age. During the chorus of the song, the narrator defines a loose criterion for a husband.

The song is derived from the broadside ballad "The Wooing Maid," a song which dates to the seventeenth century.[1]

Variations

The chorus lyrics vary between different versions of the song. In a version collected in Dover, Vermont in 1919, the chorus is sung:

A linman, a tinman, a tinker, a tailor,

A fiddler, a peddler, a plough-man, a sailor;

Come gentle, come simple, come foolish, come witty,

Don't let me die an old maid, but take me out of pity![2]

In another variation heard in Pulaski County, Kentucky and published in 1917 differs slightly:

Come a landsman, a pinsman, a tinker or a tailor,

A fiddler or a dancer, a ploughboy or a sailor,

A gentleman or a poor man, a fool or a witty,

Don't you let me die an old maid, but take me out of pity.[1]

In "The Wooing Maid," the ballad from which the song is derived, the first two lines of the chorus belong instead to the first verse:

[...]

Come tinker, come broomman:

She will refuse no man.

Come gentle, come simple, come foolish, come witty,

Oh! if you lack a maid, take me for pitty.[3]

The song is known by many titles, including "Sister Susan",[4] and "The Spinster's Lament",[2] "Old Maid's Complaint", "Old Maid's Lament," and "Old Maid's Petition".[5]

Pete Seeger recorded a rendition of the song for the Smithsonian Folkways label.

The Kingston Trio's "Take Her Out of Pity", included on their 1961 album Close-Up, is based on the song.[6]

Notes and References

  1. 534379 . Ballads and Songs . Kittredge, G. L. . The Journal of American Folklore . Jul–Sep 1917 . 30 . 117 . 355–6. 10.2307/534379 .
  2. Book: Songs and Verse from the Hills of Vermont . The Dover Historical Society . Atwood, James . 2010 . East Dover, Vermont . 18–21 . Mary . Atwood . Edith . Sturgis . Robert . Hughs.
  3. Book: The Roxburghe Ballads, Volume 3 . Ballad Society . Chappell, William . 1880 . 52–3.
  4. Book: Vermont Folk-Songs and Ballads . Folklore Associates, Inc. . Flanders, Helen Hartness . 1968 . Hatboro, Pennsylvania . 102 . Brown . George.
  5. Book: An Index to the Field Recordings in the Flanders Ballad Collection at Middlebury College . Middlebury College . Quinn, Jennifer Post . 1983 . Middlebury, Vermont . 117.
  6. Book: Bush . William J. . Greenback Dollar: The Incredible Rise of the Kingston Trio . 2013 . Rowman & Littlefield . 9780810881921 . 224 . en.