| Soledad Román de Nuñez | |
| Office: | First Lady of Colombia |
| President: | Rafael Núñez |
| Term Label: | In role |
| Term Start: | 1 April 1886 |
| Term End: | 18 September 1894 |
| Predecessor: | Position established |
| Successor: | Ana Narvaez y Guerra |
| Birth Name: | Soledad Román Polanco |
| Birth Date: | October 6, 1835 |
| Birth Place: | Cartagena, Bolívar, New Granada |
| Death Place: | Cartagena, Bolívar, Colombia, |
| Resting Place: | Chapel of El Cabrero |
| Spouse: | Rafael Núñez |
| Mother: | Rafaela Polanco de Román |
| Father: | Manuel Román y Picón |
Soledad Román de Núñez (born Soledad Román Polanco; October 6, 1835 - June 19, 1924) was the First lady of Colombia in 1880–1882, 1884–1888 and 1892, by her marriage to president Rafael Núñez. She is considered to have wielded a considerable influence in policy and participated in state affairs in Colombia during the presidencies of her spouse more than any other woman in Colombia before her. She is credited with the victory of the government in the conflict of 1885, as well as the Concordat of 1887.[1] She was a controversial figure, because her marriage was not recognized by the Catholic church, as the wedding had been civil, as her spouse's first wife was still alive and he was still married to her in the eyes of the Catholic church.
Soledad Román Polanco was born on 6 October 1835 in Cartagena as the eldest daughter of Manuel Román Picón and Manuela Polanco.[2] During much of her youth, "Sia Sola" as she was called by her family, her long stays at her father's Botica Román allowed Soledad to establish her first contacts with political and economic leaders of Cartgena, among whom Juan José Nieto stands out.[3]
Román Polanco had been engaged for 5 years to the Catalan migrant Pedro Macía whom she never married due to the postponement of her marriage. On 14 June 1877 they were married in Paris before the Consul of Colombia in France José Triana. Which sparked rejection and controversy on the part of Colombian society, calling Núñez a bigamist even though he was married to Dolores Gallegos. Román de Núñez was widely rejected by society and her husband's opponents.[4]
During the 1880 Colombian presidential election, Rafael Núñez became the new president of the then United States of Colombia. Due to the rejection that his name meant, Román de Núñez decided not to accompany him to Bogotá, so Soledad lived the four years of the first presidency of her husband in Cartagena, later during the 1884 elections, her husband was elected for a second term, so this time she decided to accompany her husband to the San Carlos Palace.
Román de Núñez was unpopular, and on multiple occasions harshly criticized when she was found to be Rafael Núñez's lover, despite being married to him, society continued to see Dolores Gallegos as Núñez's wife, which generated rivalries between those who defended that the union between Rafael Núñez and Soledad was real.
Román de Núñez was characterized by having a politically active role, becoming a great influence on some of her husband's political decisions, the most relevant being her intervention in the political project of regeneration as well as her interim presidency during the Civil war of 1885. Later he would make use of his political influence and his links with different political leaders with whom he negotiated the union with the Núñez side against the Liberal insurgents, which ended in their defeat and the promulgation of the constitution of 1886, as well as the signing of the concordat of 1887.[3] [5]