So Help Me Girl Explained

So Help Me Girl
Cover:JD - So Help Me Girl single.png
Type:single
Artist:Joe Diffie
Album:Third Rock from the Sun
B-Side:"The Cows Came Home"
Released:January 30, 1995
Genre:Country
Length:3:29
Label:Epic
Producer:Johnny Slate, Joe Diffie
Prev Title:Pickup Man
Prev Year:1994
Next Title:I'm in Love with a Capital "U"
Next Year:1995

"So Help Me Girl" is a song written by Howard Perdew and Andy Spooner and recorded by American country music singer Joe Diffie. It was released in January 1995 as the third single from his fourth studio album, Third Rock from the Sun (1994). The song reached number two on the Billboard Hot Country Singles & Tracks chart, where it debuted at number 59 for the week of February 4, 1995, and number 84 on the Billboard Hot 100.[1]

Music video

The music video for "So Help Me Girl" was directed by Gerry Wenner and premiered in early 1995.

Charts

Year-end charts

Chart (1995)Position
Canada Country Tracks (RPM)[2] 57
US Hot Country Songs (Billboard)[3] 41

Gary Barlow version

So Help Me Girl
Cover:Garybarlowsohelpmegirl.jpg
Type:single
Artist:Gary Barlow
Album:Open Road
B-Side:"Million to One", "Offer My Peace"
Genre:Pop
Length:4:29
Label:RCA, BMG
Producer:David Foster
Chronology:Gary Barlow UK singles
Prev Title:Love Won't Wait
Prev Year:1997
Next Title:Open Road
Next Year:1997

"So Help Me Girl" was covered by English singer and songwriter Gary Barlow, and released as the third single from his debut solo album, Open Road (1997), in the United Kingdom on July 14, 1997, and as the lead single from the album in the US later in the year. Following the success of the album in the UK, Barlow signed a record deal with Arista records for it to be released in the US. He reworked the album for the American market and subsequently released a remixed version of "So Help Me Girl" as the lead single there.

Produced by David Foster, "So Help Me Girl" was released in 65 countries around the world and topped the charts in 13 countries.[4] In the UK, it peaked at number 11 on the UK Singles Chart. And in the US, the single peaked at number 44 on the Billboard Hot 100, number three on the Billboard Adult Contemporary Chart and number 58 on the Billboard Radio Charts.

Critical reception

Larry Flick from Billboard gave the American version of "So Help Me Girl" a positive review, saying that it did not stray from Barlow's work in the group Take That. He also praised his "boyish teen-idol charm" and "flexible tenor."[5] A reviewer from Music Week rated it three out of five, adding that "the song's Nashville roots are barely discernible on this David Foster update which turns it into a swoony, low-key ballad to give Barlow another hit."[6] David Sinclair from The Times wrote, "Old country song given a dreary, pop ballad treatment."[7]

Music video

Two music videos were released for So Help Me Girl. The first video, accompanying the European release of the single, similar to the music video for Diffie's version, features Barlow taking a girl home after a night out, and waking up the next morning and realising that he has cheated on his girlfriend. He performs the majority of the song in the bedroom, before moving to a piano for the final scenes, which depict a fight between his girlfriend and the girl he took home. The second video, accompanying the American release of the single, begins with Barlow sitting alone on a bridge and throwing a rose into the water below, whilst a mysterious woman looks on. He then continues to perform the song whilst looking through the windows of a darkened house, where he spots a young girl. The video continues with Barlow walking through a lighted tunnel of moving cars, before returning to the house and performing the final line of the song to the girl personally.[8]

Track listings

  1. "So Help Me Girl"
  2. "Million to One"
  3. "Offer My Peace"
  4. "So Help Me Girl" (C Swing mix)
  1. "So Help Me Girl"
  2. "So Help Me Girl" (Peter Mokran mix)
  3. "Interview"
  1. "So Help Me Girl"
  2. "Million to One"
  1. "So Help Me Girl" – 4:29
  2. "Back for Good" (live) – 4:03
  1. "So Help Me Girl"
  2. "Million to One"
  3. "Offer My Peace"

Charts

Weekly charts

Chart (1997)Peak
position
Europe (Eurochart Hot 100)[17] 41
Japan (Oricon)[18] 7
Taiwan (IFPI)[19] 3

Year-end charts

Chart (1997)Position
Brazil (Crowley)[20] 98
Chart (1998)Position
US Adult Contemporary (Billboard)[21] 28

Release history

RegionDateFormat(s)Label(s)
United KingdomJuly 14, 1997[22]
JapanJuly 24, 1997CD[23]

Other versions

Mark Wills and Nate Smith covered the song on Hardy's 2024 mixtape, Hixtape: Vol. 3: Difftape.

Notes and References

  1. Book: Whitburn, Joel. Joel Whitburn. Hot Country Songs 1944 to 2008. Record Research, Inc. 2008. 125–126. 978-0-89820-177-2.
  2. Web site: RPM Top 100 Country Tracks of 1995. RPM. December 18, 1995. July 21, 2013.
  3. Best of 1995: Country Songs . . . 1995. July 21, 2013.
  4. http://springbarrelsongpluggingservices.com/success.html Gary Barlow So Help Me Girl SpringBarrell Songwriter Services. Accessed 28/12/13
  5. Larry. Flick. August 16, 1997. Single Reviews. Billboard. 62. Larry Flick.
  6. Reviews: Singles. Music Week. July 5, 1997. 30. August 15, 2022.
  7. Sinclair, David (July 19, 1997). "Albums; The week's top pop releases". The Times.
  8. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FSoJ5uR1rqU Official Music Video of So Help Me Girl
  9. So Help Me Girl. Gary Barlow. 1997. UK CD1 liner notes. RCA Records, BMG. 74321 501202 2.
  10. So Help Me Girl. Gary Barlow. 1997. Australian CD single liner notes. RCA Records, BMG. 74321 507072.
  11. So Help Me Girl. Gary Barlow. 1997. UK CD2 liner notes. RCA Records, BMG. 74321 501 212.
  12. So Help Me Girl. Gary Barlow. 1997. UK cassette single sleeve. RCA Records, BMG. 74321 501 204.
  13. So Help Me Girl. Gary Barlow. 1997. European CD single liner notes. RCA Records, BMG. 74321 506572.
  14. So Help Me Girl. Gary Barlow. 1997. US CD single liner notes. Arista Records. 07822-13428-2.
  15. So Help Me Girl. Gary Barlow. 1997. US cassette single sleeve. Arista Records. 07822-13428-4.
  16. So Help Me Girl. Gary Barlow. 1997. Japanese CD single liner notes. RCA Records, BMG. BVCP-8872.
  17. Eurochart Hot 100 Singles. Music & Media. 14. 31. 12. August 2, 1997.
  18. Web site: ゲイリー・バーロウのヒストリー. Garlow Barlow's History. Oricon. ja. https://web.archive.org/web/20140309210438/http://www.oricon.co.jp/prof/artist/68069/profile/history/. March 9, 2014. November 16, 2023.
  19. https://web.archive.org/web/19980224060942/http://ifpi.org.tw/chart/1997/single31.htm IFPI Taiwan - Single Top 10 (1997/31)
  20. Web site: Brazilian Top 100 Year-End 1997. April 3, 2018. Crowley Broadcast Analysis. June 29, 2024.
  21. Best of '98: Most Played Adult Contemporary Songs. Airplay Monitor. 6. 52. 56. December 25, 1998.
  22. New Releases: Singles. Music Week. 31. July 12, 1997.
  23. Web site: ソー・ヘルプ・ミー・ガール ゲイリー・バーロウ. So Help Me Girl Gary Barlow. Oricon. ja. November 16, 2023.