| Omaima Aree Nelson | |
| Birth Place: | Cairo, Egypt |
| Alias: | Omayma Aref Stainbrook[1] |
| Conviction: | Second-degree murder |
| Conviction Penalty: | 27 years to life in prison |
| Conviction Status: | Imprisoned |
| Imprisoned: | California Institution for Women |
| Occupation: | Former model, nanny |
| Spouse: | Roger Stainbrook (divorced) |
| Native Name: | أميمة عارف |
| Birth Name: | Omaima Aref |
| Nationality: | Egyptian[2] |
Omaima Aree Nelson (; born 1968) is an Egyptian convicted murderer who was convicted of the 1991 murder of Bill Nelson. She was sentenced to life imprisonment in 1992 and has since been serving her sentence at California Institution for Women. Her case made international headlines due to allegations of bondage sex, decapitation, castration and cannibalism.
Omaima Aree Nelson was born and raised as one of 16 children in Cairo, Egypt. There are conflicting reports about her age, although most sources indicate that she was born in 1968. At age six, she underwent customary female circumcision at the wish of her father. She and two sisters would live with her mother in an impoverished part of the city near the local necropolis.[3] [4]
In 1986, she immigrated to the United States following her marriage to an American citizen, Roger Stainbrook, whom she subsequently divorced. She lived primarily in California, working as a nanny and later also getting a job as a model at South Coast Plaza in Costa Mesa. She would often engage in simultaneous relationships with different men and frequented bars to solicit older men for sex under the names Ishta or Nadia, for which San Bernadino prosecutors called her "almost hooker-like".[5]
She obtained a driver's license in 1989 and was noted for 12 traffic violations, including the theft of a car leased by a boyfriend, 38-year-old Jack Huston, in Chino.[6] In November 1990, 61-year-old Robert Hannson, a resident of Huntington Beach, accused her of attempted robbery for pointing a gun at him while he was tied up during a consensual bondage session but no official charges were filed to the Orange County Sheriff's Department until her arrest in December 1991. Another boyfriend, Richard Gray, accused Omaima of putting a knife to his throat during their relationship, which she later claimed occurred consensually during a sex game. She was also reported for the assault on a female security guard who had caught her shoplifting in a Thriftys store by biting her breast.[7] [8] [9]
In early October 1991, she met William E. "Bill" Nelson while playing pool at a bar in Huntington Beach. Nelson was 56-year-old at the time, worked as a pilot in Laredo, Texas, and lived in Costa Mesa, having been released the same year after serving four years in prison for attempting to smuggle 100 tons of marijuana from Mexico through his job.
According to John Fitzgibbon Sr., who was Bill Nelson's attorney and had met the couple during their honeymoon in Laredo on November 3, the pair claimed to have married in an Egyptian ceremony in either Las Vegas or Phoenix "a few weeks earlier", but neither city had records of their marriage. Acquaintances and co-workers of Bill Nelson described the couple as affectionate, but some voiced suspicions that Omaima had married her husband for his money. An attorney representing Bill Nelson's ex-wife, Kathy Nelson, said that the divorce proceedings had not yet been complete at the time, who, along with the prosecution during her trial, called the validity of their marriage claim into question.[10]
Omaima claimed that on November 28, 1991, Bill had sexually assaulted her in their apartment on Elden Street after she had been tied to a bed during bondage play. Omaima said she broke free of her restraints and hit Bill with a lamp before stabbing him with scissors and beating him with a clothes iron. He was determined to have died of several stab wounds. After killing him, she began dismembering his body, and cooked his head and boiled his hands to remove his fingerprints. She then mixed up his body parts with leftover turkey and disposed of him in a garbage disposal. Neighbors claim they heard the disposal unit running for hours after the time of Bill's death.[11] [12] She reportedly castrated him in revenge for his alleged sexual assaults. She told her psychiatrist, David Sheffner, that she had cooked her husband's ribs in barbeque sauce and eaten them, but has since consistently denied this. Sheffner later claimed that the 12-hour dismemberment was performed in a "trance-like state" and that her behavior was the result of a psychotic episode.[13]
Afterwards, she drove through Orange County in Nelson's corvette, hoping to convince acquaintances and former boyfriends to help in the disposal of Nelson's body. On December 1, she attempted to enlist the help of Richard Gray in Anaheim, but he refused to listen to her story and told her to leave. Gray alerted the authorities, who searched the Nelson residence to discover much of the furniture stained with blood and human flesh haphazardly strewn about the rooms, either wrapped in tinfoil or packed into plastic bags or cardboard boxes. In total, police found eleven containers in the house, as well as a garbage bag in the car, all stuffed with Nelson's remains. Officers also recovered a large soup pot, a cooler, a deep fat fryer “with residue” and a glass jar “with contents” of undisclosed nature.
A few hours later, in the early morning of December 2, Omaima went to the Monte Vista Avenue house of an acquaintance, 27-year-old Jose Esquivel, and told her that her husband had sexually assaulted her, showing him cuts on her chest, thighs, and feet, as well as ligature markings on her wrists as proof. She then asked him to dispose of his remains, which she had brought to his doorstep in garbage bags in exchange for several appliances and the false promise of $75,000 from a safe that really only contained $100. Esquivel told her he accepted and excused himself to get his truck, but instead called the police.[14]
Omaima was arrested on a suspicion of murder charge on December 2, 1991, and her trial began in Santa Ana almost exactly one year later on December 1, 1992.[15]
During the trial, her attorney Thomas Mooney claimed self-defense and said that she had undergone female genital mutilation as a child and sex was traumatic and painful for her, only increased by the assaults she allegedly sustained during her marriage.[11] Omaima also accused the deceased Nelson of domestic violence and sexual abuse, claiming she lived in constant fear because Bill threatened her with death or that he would falsely report her to immigration as an illegal alien. The account was challenged by the prosecution, which had her ex-husband testify that Omaima never made mention of discomfort during sex.[16] Kathy Nelson also took the stand and said that her ex-husband had not been violent during their marriage. A medical examination conducted in December 1991 showed no signs of physical sexual trauma on Omaima while the pathology report of Bill Nelson revealed that he bore ligature markings on his wrists, indicating that he was tied up shortly before his death. After the jury deliberated for six days, she was convicted of second-degree murder on January 12, 1993.[13] She was sentenced to 27 years to life in prison[17] [18] and unsuccessfully appealed the verdict in 1995.
During her incarceration, Omaima has claimed to have become a born-again Christian and that she since married a man who later died, which was denied by prison officials. She also attempted to petition for habeas corpus twice in 2002 and 2019, but was denied each time by circuit court.[19] [20] [21]
Omaima first became eligible for parole in 2006, but was denied when "commissioners found her unpredictable and a serious threat to public safety." She became eligible again in 2011, but was denied by the parole board again, citing that she had not taken responsibility for the murder, and would not be a productive citizen if she were freed. She will not be able to seek parole again until 2026.[22]