My Husband's Not Gay Explained

Image Alt:A logo for the American television special My Husband's Not Gay, featuring navy and orange gradient letters over a backdrop of the sky.
Genre:Reality television
Country:United States
Language:English
Location:Salt Lake City, Utah
Runtime:42 minutes
Company:Hot Snakes Media
Network:TLC

My Husband's Not Gay is an American reality television special broadcast by TLC. Filmed in Salt Lake City, Utah, the one-hour special premiered on January 11, 2015. The special followed four Mormon men who are attracted to men but do not identify as gay. The special depicts one of the men's search for a wife while the other three men, who are married to women, navigate their unconventional relationships.

Format

Set in Salt Lake City, Utah, the one-hour special depicted four Mormon men—Jeff, Pret, Curtis, and Tom—who, while only attracted to men, are married to or seeking a relationship with women.

Production

TLC claimed that the couples depicted in the special "reveal the decisions they have made and speak only for themselves."[1]

Reception

A Change.org petition drew over 100,000 supporters to ask TLC to pull the program[2] because, "TLC is ... sending the message that being gay is something that can and ought to be changed, or that you should reject your sexual orientation by marrying someone of the opposite sex." Objectors stated that by airing a television special about this belief, TLC was implicitly endorsing it, a form of bigotry.[3] [4]

My Husband's Not Gay drew sharp criticism from advocacy groups, including the media monitoring organizations GLAAD and Truth Wins Out (TWO).[5]

Notes and References

  1. Web site: 'My Husband's Not Gay' Reality Show Faces Backlash. January 6, 2015. ABC News. en-US. August 10, 2023. https://web.archive.org/web/20210124044222/https://abcnews.go.com/Entertainment/husbands-gay-reality-show-faces-backlash/story?id=28025180. January 24, 2021. live.
  2. Web site: Moylan . Brian . My Husband's Not Gay is definitely not worth the uproar . The Guardian . 10 February 2019 . 9 January 2015 . 8 August 2024 . https://web.archive.org/web/20240808083231/https://www.theguardian.com/tv-and-radio/2015/jan/09/tlc-show-my-husbands-not-gay-glaad-uproar . live .
  3. Web site: Green . Emma . The Profound Lack of Empathy in 'My Husband's Not Gay' . The Atlantic . 10 February 2019 . 12 January 2015 . 19 December 2018 . https://web.archive.org/web/20181219044138/https://www.theatlantic.com/entertainment/archive/2015/01/the-profound-lack-of-empathy-in-my-husbands-not-gay/384414/ . live .
  4. Web site: TLC Faces Pressure to Cancel 'My Husband's Not Gay' Special, GLAAD Calls Show 'Dangerous'. January 6, 2015. Variety. en-US. June 29, 2023. https://web.archive.org/web/20150106210057/https://variety.com/2015/tv/news/tlc-my-husbands-not-gay-cancellation-protest-glaad-1201393586/. January 6, 2015. live.
  5. Web site: More than 70,000 call on TLC to cancel "My Husband's Not Gay". Bolles. Alexandra. January 6, 2015. GLAAD. en-US. June 30, 2023. https://web.archive.org/web/20150310190453/https://glaad.org/blog/more-70000-call-tlc-cancel-my-husbands-not-gay. March 10, 2015. live.