| Mercury Stardust | |||||||||||||||
| Other Names: | "Trans Handy Ma'am" | ||||||||||||||
| Birth Date: | 8 December 1987 | ||||||||||||||
| Birth Place: | Madison, Wisconsin | ||||||||||||||
| Occupation: | Home repair educator, TikToker, activist, burlesque performer | ||||||||||||||
| Years Active: | 2021–present | ||||||||||||||
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Mercury Stardust (born December 8, 1987) is an American author, TikToker, transgender activist, burlesque performer, and home repair and maintenance educator.[1] Known on TikTok as the "Trans Handy Ma'am", she provides tips and advice on DIY home repair.
Stardust grew up on a farm in northern Wisconsin, where she learned maintenance skills from her father, a truck driver and farm hand.[2] Although raised as a boy, she was drawn towards feminine aesthetics from a young age.[3] In college, she studied theater and became a cabaret performer. Stardust took an internship as a maintenance technician at the age of 19, as she needed a day job while she traveled and performed in gay bars on weekends. In 2015, Stardust founded the Wisconsin Burlesque Association.[4] Stardust chose her name in 2014. She came out as a transgender woman in 2019. Her spouse, Ari, is non-binary.
Stardust began posting on TikTok in March 2021. Initially using the platform to promote her weekly burlesque show in Madison, she shifted her focus after going viral in April 2021 for a video explaining how to use a ratchet strap. Her content largely focuses on home repair and DIY solutions to common household problems, earning her the nickname "Trans Handy Ma'am". She reached one million followers by July 2021 and 1.5 million by February 2022, at which point content creation became her full time job.[5] As of September 2023, Stardust had over two million followers.[6] She received the 2021 Trans* Activist of the Year award from the OutReach LGBTQ Community Center.[7]
In March 2022, Stardust hosted a "Tiktok-a-thon" coinciding with International Transgender Day of Visibility, during which she raised more than $120,000 for Plume, an organization which funds gender-affirming care.[8] [9] During the event's second iteration in March 2023, she co-hosted a 30-hour livestream on both TikTok and Twitch to raise money for Point of Pride, an organization which funds gender-affirming care for transgender individuals.[10] [11] Guests for the event included V Spehar and makeup artist Darius Hall. The livestream raised over $100,000 in its first hour and $1 million in its first six hours. In total the event raised over US$2 million.[12] In March 2024, the event's third iteration aimed to raised US$4 million for Point of Pride, with appearances from guests Ve'ondre Mitchell, Dylan Mulvaney, and Zaya Perysian.[13] [14] However, within the first ten hours of the event, Stardust's and co-host Jory's TikTok accounts were banned nine times due to mass reporting from trolls, resulting in multiple interruptions.
Since November 2022, Stardust has hosted the podcast Handy Ma'am Hotline, where she discusses home maintenance.[15] In April 2023, Stardust announced that she had authored a book, Safe and Sound: A Renter-Friendly Guide to Home Repair, set to be published on August 29, 2023 by Penguin Random House. Within a few days of its presale, the book became a Number 1 Bestseller in Amazon's Home Repair category. In August 2023, Stardust's book Safe and Sound: A Renter-Friendly Guide to Home Repair, became a New York Times best sellers book. Stardust went on a 52-city book tour in the United States in fall 2023.[16]