Mate choice in humans explained

In humans, males and females differ in their strategies to acquire mates and focus on certain qualities. There are two main categories of strategies that both sexes utilize: short-term and long-term. Human mate choice, an aspect of sexual selection in humans, depends on a variety of factors, such as ecology, demography, access to resources, rank/social standing, genes, and parasite stress.

While there are a few common mating systems seen among humans, the amount of variation in mating strategies is relatively large. This is due to how humans evolved in diverse niches that were geographically and ecologically expansive. This diversity, as well as cultural practices and human consciousness, have all led to a large amount of variation in mating systems. Below are some of the overarching trends of mate choice.

Female mate choice

Although human males and females are both selective in deciding with whom to mate, females exhibit more mate choice selectivity than males, as is seen in nature. Relative to most other animals however, female and male mating strategies are found to be more similar to each other. According to Bateman's principle of Lifespan Reproductive Success (LRS), human females display the least variance of the two sexes in their LRS due to their high obligatory parental investment, that is a nine-month gestational period, as well as lactation following birth in order to feed offspring so that their brain can grow to the required size.^[1]

Human female sexual selection can be examined by looking at ways in which males and females are sexually dimorphic, especially in traits that serve little other evolutionary purpose. For example, male traits such as the presence of beards, overall lower voice pitch, and average greater height are thought to be sexually selected traits as they confer benefits to either the women selecting for them, or to their offspring. Experimentally, women have reported a preference for men with beards and lower voices.^{[2] [3] [4]}

Female mate choice hinges on many different coinciding male traits, and the trade-off between many of these traits must be assessed. The ultimate traits most salient to female human mate choice, however, are parental investment, resource provision and the provision of good genes to offspring. Many phenotypic traits are thought to be selected for as they act as an indication of one of these three major traits. The relative importance of these traits when considering mate selection differ depending on the type of mating arrangement females engage in. Human women typically employ long-term mating strategies when choosing a mate, however they also engage in short-term mating arrangements, so their mate choice preferences change depending on the function of the type of arrangement.

Mating strategies

Female short-term

David Buss outlines several hypotheses as to the function of women's short-term mate choices:

• Resource hypothesis: Women may engage in short-term mating in order to gain resources that they may not be able to gain from a long-term partner, or that a long-term partner may not be able to provide consistently. These resources may be food, protection for the woman and her children from aggressive men who may capture or sexually coerce them, or status, by providing the woman with a higher social standing. Women may also benefit from having several short-term mating arrangements through paternity confusion—if the paternity of her offspring is not certain, she may be able to accrue resources from several men as a result of this uncertainty.^[5]
• Genetic benefit hypothesis: Women may choose to engage in short-term mating arrangements in order to aid conception if her long-term partner is infertile, to gain superior genes to those of her long-term partner, or to acquire different genes to those of her partner and increase the genetic diversity of her offspring. This relates to what is known as the sexy son hypothesis; if a woman acquires genes from a high quality male, her offspring will likely have higher mate value, resulting in their increased reproductive success.
• Mate expulsion and mate switching: Women may engage in a short-term mating arrangement in order to cause an end to a long-term relationship; in other words, to facilitate a break-up. Women may also use short-term mating if their current partner has depreciated in value, and they wish to 'trade up' and find a partner that they believe has higher value.
• Short-term for long-term goals: Women may use short-term sexual relationships in order to assess a mate's value as a long-term partner, or in the hopes that the short-term arrangement will result in one that is long-term.

Female long-term

The provision of economic resources, or the potential to acquire many economic resources, is the most obvious cue towards the ability of a man to provide resources, and women in the United States have been shown experimentally to rate the importance of their partner's financial status more highly than men. However, many other traits exist that may act as cues towards a man's ability to provide resources that have been sexually selected for in women's evolutionary history. These include older age—older males have had more time to accrue resources—industriousness, dependability and stability—if a woman's long-term partner is not emotionally stable or is not dependable then their provision of resources to her and her offspring are likely to be inconsistent. Additionally, the costs associated with an emotionally unstable partner such as jealousy and manipulation may outweigh the benefits associated with the resources they are able to provide.

Women's mate choices will also be constrained by the context in which they are making them, resulting in conditional mate choices. Some of the conditions that may influence female mate choice include the woman's own perceived attractiveness, the woman's personal resources, mate copying and parasite stress. Romantic love is the mechanism through which long-term mate choice occurs in human females.^[6]

Male short-term

When finding a short-term mate, males highly value women with sexual experience and physical attractiveness.^[7] Men seeking short-term sexual relationships are likely to avoid women who are interested in commitment or require investment. In short-term sexual relationships, men are less choosy because of low parental investment.

Examples of short-term mating strategies in males:

• Multiple sexual partners: When looking for short-term sexual relationships, men may wish for there to be as little time as possible between each partner.
• Physical attractiveness: Men who are interested in a short-term sexual relationship are more likely to prioritise information about the body of potential partners, rather than their faces. When finding a female for a short-term relationship, compared with a long-term relationship, males are less likely to prioritise factors such as commitment.
• Relaxation of standards: It has been reported that men are more likely to engage in a sexual relationship with women who have lower levels of intelligence, independence, honesty, generosity, athleticism, responsibility and cooperativeness, when this relationship is short-term. Men may be more accepting of lower standards, than what they usually prefer, because they are not entering a long-term relationship with this person.
• Sexual experience: Many men assume that women who have engaged in sexual experiences beforehand are likely to have a higher sex drive than women who haven't. These women may also be more accessible and require less courtship.

Male long-term

Humans have the ability to rely on biological signals of reproductive success and non-biological signals, such as the female's willingness to marry.^[8] Unlike many animals, humans are not able to consciously display physical changes to their body when they are ready to mate, so they have to rely on other forms of communication before engaging in a consensual relationship. Romantic love is the mechanism through which long-term mate choice occurs in human males. For long-term sexual relationships, men are usually equally choosy because they have a similar parental investment like the women, as they heavily invest in the offspring in form of resource provisioning.

Males may look for:

• Commitment and marriage: A human male may be interested in mating with a female who seeks marriage. This is because he has exclusive sexual access to the female, so any offspring produced in the relationship will be genetically related to him (unless the female has sexual intercourse with another male outside of the marriage). This increases the likelihood of paternity certainty. With two married parents investing in the offspring, their chance of survival may increase; therefore the male's DNA will be passed on to the children of his offspring. Also, a male who is interested in committing to a female may be more attractive to potential mates. A male who can promise resources and future parental investment is likely to be more appealing to women than a male who is unwilling to commit to her.
• Facial symmetry: Symmetrical faces have been judged to signal good general health and the ability for a woman to withstand adverse environmental factors, such as illness.
• Femininity: A feminine face can be a signal of youth, which in turn signals strong reproductive value. As a woman gets older, her facial features become less feminine due to ageing. Femininity can also be linked to disease-resistance and high estrogen levels, which are factors that suggest reproductive value to a potential mate.
• Physical beauty: Observable characteristics of a woman can indicate good health and the ability to reproduce, qualities which are likely to be desired by a male. This may include smooth skin, absence of lesions, muscle tone, long hair and high energy levels. Women with darker features (lips, eyes, eyebrows) relative to their facial skin have been found to be more attractive, as this increases facial contrast (the same features appear to decrease male attractiveness).^{[9] [10]}
• Waist-to-hip ratio: A waist-to-hip ratio of 0.7 is an indicator of fertility, lower long-term health risks and suggests that the woman isn't already pregnant. A male is likely to desire these qualities in a mate, as it will increase the chance of survival of any offspring the couple have together.
• Breasts: The pigmentation of nipples and breasts appears to be the most important quality of breast attractiveness. Men rated women with dark nipples and dark areola as significantly more attractive than those with light-colored nipppes or areola.^[11] Breasts of medium cup size were found to be the most attractive, however authors noted that men focused primarily on the coloration of nipples and areola rather than breast size.
• Youth: Both young and old men are attracted to women in their twenties.^{[12] [13]} Faces that appear younger are usually rated as more attractive by males.

Parasite stress on mate choice

The parasite-stress theory, otherwise known as pathogen stress, states that parasites or diseases put stress on the life development of an organism, leading to a change in the appearance of their sexually attractive traits. The initial research on the Hamilton–Zuk hypothesis^[14] (see indicator traits) showed that, within one species (brightly colored birds), there was greater sexual selection for males that had brighter plumage (feathers). In addition, Hamilton and Zuk showed that, comparing across multiple species, there is greater selection for physical attributes in species under greater parasitic stress. This has influenced research regarding human mate choice.

In societies with a high prevalence of parasites or pathogens, members would derive greater evolutionary advantage from selecting for physical attractiveness/good looks in mate choice compared to that derived by members of societies with lower prevalence. Humans could use physical attractiveness to determine resistance to parasites and diseases, which are believed to lower their sufferers' ability to portray attractive traits from then on and limit the number of high-quality pathogen-resistant mates.^[15] In cultures where parasitic infection is especially high, members could use cues available to them to determine the physical health status of the potential mate.^[16] Regardless of the wealth or ideology, the females in areas that are more at risk or have higher rates of parasites and diseases would weigh masculinity more highly when rating potential mates.

• Scarification: In pre-industrial societies, body markings such as tattoos or scarifications are predicted to have been a way in which individuals could attract potential mates, by indicating the reproductive quality of a person. Meaning, scars on the body could be viewed by prospective mates as evidence that a person has overcome parasites and is thus more attractive to potential mates.^[17] Research investigating this hypothesis (Singh and Bronstad 1997) found that in instances of increased pathogen prevalence, the only anatomical area with evidence of scarification in females was found on the stomach, with no evidence found for male scarification.^[18]
• Masculinity: In societies where there are high levels of parasites or diseases, the females, as the overall health of members decreases, are predicted to increasingly emphasize masculinity in their mate preferences.^[19] Women look for signs of masculinity in areas such as the voice, face and body shape of males.^[20] The face, in particular, may hold several cues for parasitic resistance^[21] and has been the subject of most attractiveness research.^[22]
• Polygamy: Tropical areas were originally associated with polygynous societies as a result of the surrounding environment being both ecologically richer and homogeneous.^[23] However, whilst tropical areas were associated with polygamy, pathogen stress is predicted as a better indicator of polygamy and has been positively correlated with it. Furthermore, over the course of human evolution, areas which had high levels of parasite-stress may have shifted the polygamy threshold and increased the presence of certain types of polygamy in a society.^[24]

Criticisms

Gangested and Buss (2009) say that research indicates that parasite stress may have only influenced mate choice through females searching for "good genes" which show parasite resistance, in areas which have high prevalence of parasites.^[25] John Cartwright also points out that females may be simply avoiding the transmission of parasites to themselves rather than it being them choosing males with good genes and that females look for more than just parasite-resistant genes.^[16]

MHC-correlated mate choice

Major histocompatibility complex (MHC) or, in humans, human leukocyte antigen (HLA) produces proteins that are essential for immune system functioning. The genes of the MHC complex have extremely high variability, assumed to be a result of frequency-dependent parasite-driven selection and mate choice. This is believed to be so it promotes heterozygosity improving the chances of survival for the offspring.

Odor preferences

In humans, there is evidence that women will rate men's odor as more pleasant if the odor has MHC-dissimilar antigens, which is proposed as a way of avoiding inbreeding and increasing heterozygosity.^[26] However, women on contraceptive pills rate the odor of MHC-similar men as being more pleasant, it is unknown why women on contraceptive pills rate smell in this way. It was found that when processing MHC-similar smells were processed faster.^[27] Contrary to these findings, other studies have found that there is no correlation between attraction and odor by testing males' odor preferences on women's odors. The study concludes that there is no correlation in attraction between men and women of dissimilar HLA proteins.^[28] Research completed on a Southern Brazilian student population resulted in similar findings that found significant differences in the attraction ratings of giving to male sweat and MHC-difference.^[29]

Facial preferences

Human facial preferences have been shown to correlate with both MHC-similarity and MHC-heterozygosity.^[30] Research into MHC-similarity with regards to facial attractiveness is limited. One study found that women may prefer mates with MHC-similar faces, despite evidence that they prefer men with dissimilar body odors.^[31] While facial asymmetry hasn't been correlated with MHC-heterozygosity, the perceived healthiness of skin appears to be.^[32] It appears to be that only MHC-heterozygosity and no other genetic markers are correlated with facial attractiveness in males^[33] and it has been shown that so far that there is no correlation that has been found in females.^{[34] [35]} Slightly different from facial attractiveness, facial masculinity is not shown to correlate with MHC heterogeneity (a common measure of immunocompetence).^[36]

Criticisms

A review article published in June 2018 concluded that there is no correlation between HLA and mate choice.^[37] In addition to assessing previous studies on HLA-Mate choice analysis to identify errors in their research methods (such as small population sizes), the study collects a larger set of data and re-runs the analysis of the previous studies. By using the larger data set to conduct analysis on 30 couples of European descent, they generate findings contrary to previous studies that identified significant divergence in the mate choice with accordance to HLA genotyping. Additional studies have been conducted simultaneously on African and European populations that only show correlation of MHC divergence in European but not African populations.^[38]

See also

• Human mating strategies
• Mating preferences

Notes and References

1. Book: Human Evolutionary Psychology. Barrett. Louise. Dunbar. Robin. Lycett. John. Palgrave. 2002. 978-0-333-72558-0. Hampshire.
2. 10.1006/anbe.2000.1523 . 11124875 . Men's voices and women's choices . Animal Behaviour . 60 . 6 . 773–780 . 2000 . Collins . Sarah A. . 15165482 .
3. 10.1016/0162-3095(95)00068-2 . The evolutionary psychology of physical attractiveness: Sexual selection and human morphology . Ethology and Sociobiology . 16 . 5 . 395–424 . 1995 . Barber . Nigel .
4. Buss . David M. . Shackelford . Todd K. . Attractive Women Want it All: Good Genes, Economic Investment, Parenting Proclivities, and Emotional Commitment . . 2008 . 6 . 1 . 10.1177/147470490800600116 . free.
5. Book: Buss, David. Evolutionary Psychology, The New Science of Mind. Routledge. 2016. 978-0-205-99212-6. New York. 103–104.
6. Bode. Adam. Kushnick. Geoff. 2021. Proximate and Ultimate Perspectives on Romantic Love. Frontiers in Psychology. English. 12. 573123. 10.3389/fpsyg.2021.573123. 33912094. 1664-1078. 8074860. free.
7. Book: Buss, David. Evolutionary Psychology, The New Science of Mind. Routledge. 2016. 978-0-205-99212-6. New York. 163–176.
8. Book: Buss, David. Evolutionary Psychology, The New Science of Mind. Routledge. 2016. 978-0-205-99212-6. New York. 133–162.
9. Rowland . Hannah . Burriss . Robert . Human color in mate choice and competition . Philosophical Transactions of the Royal Society B: Biological Sciences. 372 . 1724 . 20160350 . 10.1098/rstb.2016.0350 . 28533465 . 5444069 . 2017 . The luminance of the eyebrows, eyes and mouth is lower than that of the surrounding skin in younger women [55], and decreasing the luminance of the features and increasing that of overall facial skin makes female faces more attractive and male faces less attractive [56]. Female faces exhibit greater facial contrast at the eyes and mouth than do male faces, to the extent that varying the contrast of an androgynous face while keeping the shape of the face constant can induce the viewer to perceive the face as male or female [57]..
10. Russell . Richard . A Sex Difference in Facial Contrast and its Exaggeration by Cosmetics . Perception . SAGE Publications . 38 . 8 . 2009-01-01 . 0301-0066 . 10.1068/p6331 . 1211–1219 . 19817153 . 136762 . P.1213: "Female faces had greater facial contrast than male faces in both the East Asian and the Caucasian samples, and the East Asian faces (with dark eyes) had greater facial contrast than the Caucasian faces (with lighter eyes). A 2 (sex) 62 (race) analysis of variance (ANOVA) of facial contrast found significant main effects of sex and race..
11. Dixson . Barnaby J. . Grimshaw . Gina M. . Linklater . Wayne L. . Dixson . Alan F. . Eye Tracking of Men's Preferences for Female Breast Size and Areola Pigmentation . Archives of Sexual Behavior . Springer Science and Business Media LLC . 40 . 1 . 2010-02-19 . 0004-0002 . 10.1007/s10508-010-9601-8 . 51–58. 20169468 .
12. Antfolk . Jan . 2017 . Age Limits: Men's and Women's Youngest and Oldest Considered and Actual Sex Partners . Evolutionary Psychology . 15 . 1 . 147470491769040 . 10.1177/1474704917690401. 28127998 . 10367477 . free .
13. 10.1016/j.evolhumbehav.2014.09.003 . Women's and men's sexual preferences and activities with respect to the partner's age: Evidence for female choice . Evolution and Human Behavior . 36 . 73–79 . 2015 . Antfolk . Jan . Salo . Benny . Alanko . Katarina . Bergen . Emilia . Corander . Jukka . Sandnabba . N. Kenneth . Santtila . Pekka .
14. Hamilton. William. Zuk. Marlene. 1982. Heritable True Fitness and Bright Birds: A Role for Parasites?. Science. 218. 4570. 384–387. 1982Sci...218..384H. 10.1126/science.7123238. 1688879. 7123238.
15. Fincher . Corey . Thornhill . Randy . Murray . Damian . Schaller . Mark . Pathogen prevalence predicts human cross-cultural variability in individualism/collectivism . Proceedings of the Royal Society B: Biological Sciences. 7 June 2018 . 275 . 1640 . 1279–1285 . 10.1098/rspb.2008.0094 . 18302996 . 2602680 .
16. Book: Cartwright . John . Evolution and human behavior: Darwinian perspectives on human nature . 2000 . Macmillan . Basingstoke . 978-0-333-71457-7 . 146–147 .
17. Ludvico . L.R. . Kurland . J.A. . Symbolic or not-so symbolic wounds: The behavioral ecology of human scarification . Ethology and Sociobiology . 1995 . 16 . 2 . 155–172 . 10.1016/0162-3095(94)00075-i .
18. Singh . Devendra . Mathew . Bronstad . Sex differences in the anatomical locations of human body scarification and tattooing as a function of pathogen prevalence . Evolution and Human Behavior . 18 . 6 . 403–416 . 10.1016/S1090-5138(97)00089-5 . 1997 . free .
19. DeBruine . Lisa M. . Jones . Benedict C. . Crawford . John R. . Welling . Lisa L. M. . Little . Anthony C. . The health of a nation predicts their mate preferences: cross-cultural variation in women's preferences for masculinized male faces . Proceedings of the Royal Society B: Biological Sciences. 2010 . 277 . 1692 . 2405–2410 . 10.1098/rspb.2009.2184 . 20236978 . 2894896 .
20. Jones . Benedict C. . Feinberg . David R. . Watkins . Christopher D. . Fincher . Corey L. . Little . Anthony C. . DeBruine . Lisa M. . Pathogen disgust predicts women's preferences for masculinity in men's voices, faces, and bodies . Behavioral Ecology . 2012 . 24 . 2 . 373–379 . 10.1093/beheco/ars173 . free .
21. Thornhill. R. Gangestad. S. W.. Scheib. J. E.. Facial attractiveness, symmetry and cues of good genes.. Proceedings of the Royal Society B: Biological Sciences. 1999. 266. 1431. 1913–1917. 10.1098/rspb.1999.0866. 10535106. 1690211.
22. DeBruine. Lisa M.. Little. Anthony C.. Jones. Benedict C.. Extending parasite-stress theory to variation in human mate preferences. Behavioral and Brain Sciences. 2012. 35. 2. 86–87. 10.1017/s0140525x11000987. 22289354. 1893/17923. 7420555. free.
23. White. D. R.. Burton. M. L.. Causes of polygyny: Ecology, economy, kinship, and warfare. American Anthropologist. 1988. 90. 4. 871–887. 10.1525/aa.1988.90.4.02a00060. 5158340 .
24. Low. Bobbi S.. Marriage Systems and Pathogen Stress in Human Societies. American Zoologist. 1990. 30. 2. 325–339. 10.1093/icb/30.2.325. free.
25. Gangestad. Steven W.. Buss. David M.. Pathogen prevalence and human mate preferences. Ethology and Sociobiology. 1993. 14. 2. 89–96. 10.1016/0162-3095(93)90009-7. 10.1.1.496.1320.
26. Wedekind. C.. Fu¨ri. S.. Body odour preferences in men and women: do they aim for specific MHC combinations or simply heterozygosity?. Proceedings of the Royal Society B: Biological Sciences. 1997. 264. 1387. 1471–1479. 10.1098/rspb.1997.0204. 9364787. 1688704.
27. Pause. B. M.. Krauel. K.. Schraders. C.. Sojka. B.. Westphal. E.. Muller-Ruchholtz. W.. Ferstl. R.. The human brain is a detector of chemosensorily transmitted HLA-class I-similarity in same- and opposite-sex relations. Proceedings of the Royal Society B: Biological Sciences. 2005. 273. 1585. 471–478. 10.1098/rspb.2005.3342. 16615215. 1560206.
28. Probst, F., Fischbacher, U., Lobmaier, J. S., Wirthmüller, U., & Knoch, D. (2017). Men's preferences for women's body odours are not associated with human leucocyte antigen. Proceedings. Biological sciences, 284(1864), 20171830.
29. Santos . Pablo . Schinemann . Juliano . Gabardo . Juarez . Bicalho . Maria . New evidence that the MHC influences odor perception in humans: a study with 58 Southern Brazilian students . Hormones and Behavior . 47 . 4 . 384–388 . 10.1016/j.yhbeh.2004.11.005 . 15777804 . 2005 . 8568275 .
30. Havlicek. Jan. Roberts. S. Craig. MHC-correlated mate choice in humans: A review. Psychoneuroendocrinology. 2009. 34. 4. 497–512. 10.1016/j.psyneuen.2008.10.007. 19054623. 40332494.
31. Roberts. S. C.. Little. A. C.. Gosling. L. M.. Jones. B. C.. Perrett. D. I.. Carter. V.. Petrie. M. MHC-assortative facial preferences in humans. Biology Letters. 2005. 1. 4. 400–403. 10.1098/rsbl.2005.0343. 17148217. 1626373.
32. Roberts. S. C.. Little. A. C.. Gosling. L. M.. Perrett. D. I.. Carter. V.. Jones. B. C.. Penton-Voak. I. S.. Petrie. M.. MHC-heterozygosity and human facial attractiveness. Evolution and Human Behavior. 2005. 26. 3. 213–226. 10.1016/j.evolhumbehav.2004.09.002.
33. Lie. H.. Simmons. L.. Rhodes. G.. Genetic diversity revealed in human faces. Evolution. 2008. 62. 10. 2473–2486. 10.1111/j.1558-5646.2008.00478.x. 18691260. 20020857.
34. Thornhill. R.. Gangestad. S. W.. Miller. R.. Scheyd. G.. McCollough. J. K.. Franklin. M.. Major histocompatibility complex genes, symmetry, and body scent attractiveness in men and women. Behavioral Ecology. 2003. 14. 5. 668–678. 10.1093/beheco/arg043. free.
35. Coetzee. V.. Barrett. L.. Greeff. J. M.. Henzi. S. P.. Perrett. D. I.. Wadee. A. A.. Common HLA alleles associated with health, but not with facial attractiveness. PLOS ONE. 2007. 2. 7. e640. 10.1371/journal.pone.0000640. 17653267. 1919430. 2007PLoSO...2..640C. free.
36. Zaidi . Arslan . White . Julie . Mattern . Brooke . Liebowitz . Corey . Puts . David . Claes . Peter . Shriver . Mark . Facial masculinity does not appear to be a condition-dependent male ornament in humans and does not reflect MHC heterozygosity . 10.1101/322255 . 2018 . free .
37. Stancu . Mircea . Kloosterman . Wigard . Pulit . Sara . No evidence that mate choice in humans is dependent on the MHC . 10.1101/339028 . 2018 . free .
38. Chaix . Raphaelle . Cao . Chen . Donnelley . Peter . Is Mate Choice in Humans MHC-Dependent? . PLOS Genetics . 4 . 9 . e1000184 . 10.1371/journal.pgen.1000184 . 18787687 . 2519788 . 2008 . free .