Mary Tyler Explained

Mary Tyler
Birth Name:Mary Elizabeth Sawyer
Birth Date:22 March 1806
Birth Place:Sterling, Massachusetts, U.S.
Death Place:Sterling, Massachusetts, U.S.
Burial Place:Mount Auburn Cemetery, Cambridge, Massachusetts, U.S.
Spouse:Columbus Tyler (1835–1881; his death)

Mary Tyler (born Mary Sawyer;[1] March 22, 1806 – December 11, 1889) was an American woman who is believed to have been the "Mary" on which the nursery rhyme "Mary Had a Little Lamb" was based, a claim she stated at the age of 70. The authorship of the nursery rhyme itself is also in doubt.

Early life

Mary Elizabeth Sawyer was born in 1806 on a farm in Sterling, Massachusetts,[2] to Captain Thomas Sawyer and Elizabeth Houghton. She was the second daughter of their two known children. Her father died when Mary was 19 years old.

The family lived at 108 Maple Street in Sterling. As the Sawyer Homestead, it was listed on the National Register of Historic Places in 2000,[3] but was destroyed by an arsonist in 2007.[4]

As a young girl, Mary kept a pet lamb that she took to school one day at the suggestion of her brother.[5] A commotion naturally ensued. Mary recalled, "Visiting school that morning was a young man by the name of John Roulstone; a nephew of the Reverend Lemuel Capen, who was then settled in Sterling. It was the custom then for students to prepare for college with ministers, and, for this purpose, Roulstone was studying with his uncle. The young man was very much pleased with the incident of the lamb, and, the next day, he rode across the fields on horseback, to the little old schoolhouse and handed me a slip of paper, which had written upon it the three original stanzas of the poem."[6] This account is not supported by evidence beyond Mary's memory. The "slip of paper" has never been produced as evidence. The earliest evidence of the poem's publication is Sarah Josepha Hale's 1830 collection of poems, supporting her complete authorship of the poem.

Even though this claim is unsupported by evidence, multiple sites in Sterling, Massachusetts, perpetuate the claim. A 2feet tall statue and historical marker representing "Mary's Little Lamb" stands in the town center.[7] The Redstone School, where Mary attended school and purports the incident took place, was built in 1798. The property was later purchased by Henry Ford[8] and relocated[9] to a churchyard, on the property of Longfellow's Wayside Inn in Sudbury, Massachusetts. Mary Sawyer's house, located in Sterling, Massachusetts, was listed on the National Register of Historic Places in 2000, but was destroyed by arson on August 12, 2007.[10]

Personal life

Sawyer married Vermont native Columbus Tyler in 1835.[11] [12] He was steward of the McLean Asylum in Belmont, Massachusetts, for around forty years. Mary was a matron at the facility.

The couple, who built a large house in Somerville, Massachusetts, were founders of the city's First Unitarian Church,[13] which was built in 1845.[14]

Mary was a member of the Women's Christian Temperance Union and the Women's Relief Corps. She was also a founder of the Women's Industrial Exchange.

In 1876, at the age of 70, Tyler claimed that she was the "Mary" from the poem.[15] [16] The following year, Tyler was one of twenty women who helped save the Old South Meeting House in Boston by selling fleece from her pet lamb as attachments on autograph cards. The fleece had previously been made into a pair of socks by Mary's mother.

Death

Tyler died in 1889, aged 83. She was interred in Mount Auburn Cemetery in Cambridge, Massachusetts, beside her husband, who predeceased her by eight years, aged 76.[17] [18]

Notes and References

  1. Web site: Mary Sawyer Tyler . 2024-05-30 . Freedom's Way National Heritage Area . en-US.
  2. Web site: Birth-place of Mary Sawyer and the little lamb. Sterling, Mass. . 2024-05-30 . NYPL Digital Collections . en.
  3. Web site: NRHP nomination and MACRIS inventory record for Sawyer Homestead . 2014-03-15 . Commonwealth of Massachusetts.
  4. Web site: 2016-03-04 . Man guilty of arson charges - MassLive.com . https://web.archive.org/web/20160304051104/https://www.masslive.com/metroeast/republican/index.ssf?/base/news-20/125610958290920.xml&coll=1 . dead . 2016-03-04 . 2024-05-30 .
  5. Web site: Reints . Renae . 2017-09-14 . Throwback Thursday: Mary Really *Did* Have a Little Lamb—in Massachusetts . 2024-05-30 . Boston Magazine . en-US.
  6. Book: Roulstone, John . The Story of Mary's Little Lamb . Mary (Sawyer) and her friends . Mr. & Mrs. Henry Ford . 1928 . Dearborn . 8.
  7. http://www.hmdb.org//marker.asp?marker=48420 Bronze of lamb
  8. Book: Bryan, F.R. . Friends, Families & Forays: Scenes from the Life and Times of Henry Ford . Wayne State University Press . 2002 . 978-0-8143-3684-7 . 381 . 2019-08-17.
  9. Web site: Obscura . Atlas . 2015-10-21 . Where Mary and Her Little Lamb Went to School . 2023-05-05 . slate.com . The Slate Group . en-US . 1091-2339.
  10. News: August 14, 2007 . Sterling fire called arson . https://web.archive.org/web/20070927023332/http://www.telegram.com/article/20070814/NEWS/708140456/1116 . dead . September 27, 2007 . 2014-06-14 . Worcester Telegram & Gazette News.
  11. Web site: 2021-07-19 . Sterling Historical Society Shows Off Town Artifacts at Annual Meeting . 2024-05-30 . en-US.
  12. Web site: 2010-05-10 . Unitarian inspired popular nursery rhyme UU World Magazine . 2024-05-30 . www.uuworld.org . en.
  13. Web site: 2010-05-10 . Unitarian inspired popular nursery rhyme UU World Magazine . 2024-05-30 . www.uuworld.org . en.
  14. Somerville, Past and Present, ed. Edward A. Samuels and Henry H. Kimball (Boston: Samuels and Kimball, 1897)
  15. Web site: Sonnichsen . Sandra . Who wrote Mary Had a Little Lamb? . Richards Free Library.
  16. https://newenglandhistoricalsociety.com/mary-little-lamb-yes-mary-little-lamb/ Mary Had a Little Lamb – Yes, There Was a Mary and She Did Have a Little Lamb. New England Historical Society.
  17. Book: Brigham, Willard Irving Tyler . The Tyler Genealogy: The Descendants of Job Tyler, of Andover, Massachusetts, 1619-1700 . 1912 . C. B. Tyler . 193 . en.
  18. Book: Lowe . Charles . Unitarian Review and Religious Magazine . Foote . Henry Wilder . Morison . John Hopkins . Barber . Henry H. . Normandie . James De . Allen . Joseph Henry . 1881 . Unitarian Review . 467 . en.