A gay cowboy refers to an individual belonging to the subculture within the gay community of homosexual men who dress and behave like cowboys. This movement, which emerged mainly in the Western United States and Mexico, has spread throughout North America.
A gay cowboy is a man who has been involved with cowboy culture and wants to be part of it, and could be someone from a rural area who lives there, as well as a migrant to urban areas due to the rural exodus, but who wants to maintain some habits and customs of country life. The main distinctive feature of these men is through their clothing, such as blue jeans with large buckle belts, plaid shirts, riding boots and cowboy hats, among other elements of western fashion. Regarding behavior, it tends to preserve attitudes of masculinity within the LGBT community. They claim their own sexual orientation as gay males in an environment that can be sexist, with homophobic and prejudiced attitudes towards homosexuality, where effeminate men are socially less tolerated.[1]
Initially, Mexican immigrants in the United States learned from gay American cowboys to develop their own gay cowboy identity, later replicating in Mexico with their own cultural elements, such as ranchera music, traditional Mexican cuisine, etc.[2]
The film Brokeback Mountain (2005) showed the lives of two American cowboys who had a homosexual relationship in the past and later met again, both married to women.[3] Other films with themes related to cowboy culture and gay men in ranching activities are Strange Way of Life (2023), Cowboys (2020), Power of The Dog (2021) and Dashing in December (2020).[4]
Orville Peck, an openly gay country rock singer, wears a Lone Ranger-style mask to remain anonymous.[5] The song "Ram Ranch" by Grant MacDonald has explicit spoken word lyrics with a heavy metal melody about a gay cowboy orgy.