Don't Take the Girl explained

Don't Take the Girl
Cover:Tim McGraw - Dont Take The Girl cover.png
Type:single
Artist:Tim McGraw
Album:Not a Moment Too Soon
B-Side:Welcome to the Club
Released:March 28, 1994
Recorded:1993
Genre:Country
Length:4:09
Label:Curb
Prev Title:Indian Outlaw
Prev Year:1994
Next Title:Down on the Farm
Next Year:1994

"Don't Take The Girl" is a song written by Craig Martin and Larry W. Johnson, and recorded by the American country music artist Tim McGraw. It was released in March 1994 as the second single from his album Not a Moment Too Soon. It was McGraw's fifth single overall, and his first number-one single on the Hot Country Songs chart. It also reached number one on the Canadian country charts and it was a successful pop song, reaching number 17 on the Billboard Hot 100.

Content

The song tells the story of two young lovers dealing with difficult scenarios at three different stages in their lives. In each situation, the man does all he can to make sure that different entities "don't take the girl".

In the first verse, the young man (Johnny) is eight years old, about to go on a fishing trip with his father. A young, unnamed girl, apparently Johnny's age, is also present, with a fishing pole in her hand. Johnny does not want the girl to come fishing with them. So he begs his father to "take any boy in the world / Daddy, please, don't take the girl".

In the second verse, they are ten years later. They have fallen in love and are dating. On a date at the "picture show" (i.e., the movie theater), they meet a stranger with a gun. The man grabs the girl's arm and tells Johnny to give in to his demands. Johnny surrenders his money, wallet, credit cards, a watch that his grandfather gave him, and even his car keys so that the girl would be safe (in the music video, the crook is seen running away with only the wallet).

Verse three takes place five years later. Johnny and the girl are now (presumably) married and expecting their first child, and she is eventually rushed to the hospital to have her baby delivered. The baby, a boy, is safely delivered, but the doctor informs Johnny that his wife is "fading fast". Johnny collapses to his knees and prays to God that his wife survives, even asking that his own life be taken instead of hers, as long as she is okay.

The song ends with a repeat of the song's opening line: "Johnny's daddy was taking him fishin' when he was eight years old".

Though the song leaves the wife's fate ambiguous, the music video reveals she survived her medical crisis and is seen in the end going fishing with her husband and their son, Johnny Jr.

Cover version

The song was recorded by Brett Young on his 2023 album Across the Sheets.

Critical reception

Deborah Evans Price, of Billboard magazine reviewed the song favorably, writing that it had the listeners "crying in their beer in the dancehalls down in Texas". She continues, that once radio has it, the song will take off.[1]

The southern sports personality, Brandon Walker, included the song as his top country hit of the 1990s.[2]

Music video

The video was directed by Sherman Halsey. It shows five actors, playing Johnny, his father, the girl, the robber and the doctor, intercut with McGraw, performing in front of dark blue lights. The video was played on CMT and GAC.

Charts and certifications

"Don't Take the Girl" debuted at number 71 on the U.S. Billboard Hot Country Singles & Tracks for the week of April 2, 1994.

Peak positions

End of year charts

Chart (1994)Position
Canada Country Tracks (RPM)[3] 67
US Billboard Hot 100[4] 87
US Country Songs (Billboard)[5] 30

Certifications

Parodies

Notes and References

  1. Billboard, April 30, 1994
  2. 1308945084583469056. BWalkerSEC. Updated 90s country songs power ranking. 1) Don’t Take The Girl - Tim McGraw 2) Neon Moon - Brooks & Dunn 3) The D… . 24 September 2020.
  3. Web site: RPM Top 100 Country Tracks of 1994. RPM. December 12, 1994. August 4, 2013.
  4. Web site: Billboard Top 100 - 1994 . 2010-08-27 . dead . https://web.archive.org/web/20090301121519/http://longboredsurfer.com/charts.php?year=1994 . 2009-03-01 .
  5. Best of 1994: Country Songs . . . 1994. August 4, 2013.
  6. Web site: Cledus T. Judd (No Relation) . AllMusic . December 6, 2022.