Dear Lie Explained

Dear Lie
Cover:TLC - Dear Lie.jpg
Type:single
Artist:TLC
Album:FanMail
B-Side:Sleigh Ride
Recorded:1998
Length:5:12
Label:
Producer:Babyface
Prev Title:Unpretty
Prev Year:1999
Next Title:What It Ain't (Ghetto Enuff)
Next Year:2000

"Dear Lie" is a song by American group TLC. It was written by Kenneth "Babyface" Edmonds and band member Tionne "T-Boz" Watkins for the trio's third studio album FanMail (1999), featuring production by Edmonds. The song was released as the album's third and final single on December 6, 1999, peaking at number 51 on the US Billboard Hot 100 and reaching the top 40 in several other countries. "Dear Lie" is included on the group's 2009 compilation album, We Love TLC.

Background and composition

The idea for the song initially came from a poem written by Tionne "T-Boz" Watkins titled "What's My Name", which was published in her book of semi-autobiographical poetry called Thoughts. The poem was later turned into a song with the help of Babyface. Watkins discussed that her father constantly lied, which put a strain on their relationship.[1] Watkins stated that the song began with the group's vulnerability and transformed into "a place of strength".[1] Rozonda "Chilli" Thomas enjoyed that the song played out as a metaphor for power, stating that

You can hear a lie that somebody says about you and it's not true. But it can really have so much power over you and that is why it sucks. But you've got to take that power back. We get so caught up sometimes in being upset about things and the person that we're allowing to have that type of power over us are doing just fine and as they say these days, living their best life.[1]

Commercial performance

The song reached the top 40 in several countries, including Australia, Canada, Ireland, New Zealand, and the United Kingdom. It also reached number 51 on the US Billboard Hot 100. Despite its peak in the United Kingdom, it is their sixth best-selling single there.[2]

Music video

A music video for "Dear Lie", directed by Bille Woodruff, was shot on September 26, 1999. This video features solo parts of both Thomas and Watkins in an apartment, confronted by hyperactive and overconfident alter-egos and trying to tune them out, and performance shots of Watkins, Lisa "Left Eye" Lopes, and Thomas in a hallway. At the end shot, Lopes is shown running down the hall, knocking at the doors before running out of the frame. Reportedly, none of the performers were on speaking terms with each other during the video shoot due to Lopes' frustrations with the FanMail album. Lopes stated in an online interview in 2001 that none of the members of TLC liked the video. The video was only released in foreign countries, and aired exclusively on MTV UK on December 9, 1999.

Track listings

Australian and European maxi-CD single[3]

  1. "Dear Lie" (radio edit) – 3:55
  2. "Dear Lie" (album version) – 5:10
  3. "Unpretty" (MJ Cole mix vox up) – 4:46
  4. "Sleigh Ride" (album version) – 3:43

European CD single[4]

  1. "Dear Lie" (radio edit) – 3:55
  2. "Sleigh Ride" (album version) – 3:43

UK CD single[5]

  1. "Dear Lie" (radio edit) – 3:55
  2. "Dear Lie" (album version) – 5:10
  3. "Sleigh Ride" (album version) – 3:43

UK cassette single[6]

  1. "Dear Lie" (album version) – 5:10
  2. "Sleigh Ride" (album version) – 3:43

Personnel

Personnel are adapted from the album's liner notes.[7]

Charts

Weekly charts

Chart (1999–2000)Peak
position
Europe (European Hot 100 Singles)[8] 54
Romania (Romanian Top 100)[9] 2

Year-end charts

Chart (2000)Position
Romania (Romanian Top 100)32
US Mainstream Top 40 (Billboard)[10] 98

Release history

RegionDateFormat(s)Label(s)
SwedenDecember 6, 1999CD[11]
United Kingdom[12]
United StatesJanuary 4, 2000[13] [14]
January 25, 2000Urban radio[15]

Notes and References

  1. TLC's 'FanMail' Turns 20: A Track-By-Track Retrospective With the Girl Group and Behind-the-Scenes Collaborators. Billboard. Gracie. Bianca. February 22, 2019. November 15, 2019.
  2. Web site: TLC's Official Top 10 biggest selling singles revealed. English. Official Charts Company. May 9, 2017. February 27, 2024.
  3. Dear Lie. TLC. 1999. Australian & European maxi-CD single liner notes. LaFace Records, Arista Records. 74321 71279 2.
  4. Dear Lie. TLC. 1999. European CD single liner notes. LaFace Records, Arista Records, BMG. 74321 71280 2.
  5. Dear Lie. TLC. 1999. UK CD single liner notes. LaFace Records, Arista Records, BMG. 74321 72401 2.
  6. Dear Lie. TLC. 1999. UK cassette single sleeve. LaFace Records, Arista Records, BMG. 74321 72401 4.
  7. FanMail. FanMail. TLC. 1999. US CD album liner notes. LaFace Records, Arista Records. 73008-26055-2.
  8. Eurochart Hot 100 Singles. Music & Media. 17. 8. 9. February 19, 2000. June 22, 2018.
  9. Web site: Romanian Top 100: Top of the Year 2000. ro. Romanian Top 100. dead. https://web.archive.org/web/20050122081829/http://www.rt100.ro/topul-anului-2000.html. January 22, 2005. January 6, 2023.
  10. Most Played Mainstream Top 40 Songs of 2000. Airplay Monitor. 8. 51. 54. December 22, 2000. March 28, 2020.
  11. Web site: TLC: Dear Lie. click2music.se. sv. https://web.archive.org/web/20050222174140/http://click2music.se/product.asp?prd=563&art=31. February 22, 2005. November 30, 2023.
  12. New Releases – For Week Starting 6 December, 1999: Singles. Music Week. 25. December 4, 1999. July 26, 2021.
  13. Going for Adds. Radio & Records. 1330. 46, 53. December 17, 1999. July 26, 2021.
  14. Gavin Top 40/Rhythm Crossover: Impact Dates. Gavin Report. 2285. 7. December 17, 1999.
  15. AddVance Notice. Radio & Records. 1334. 59. January 21, 2000. July 26, 2021.