Dear Ex Explained

Dear Ex
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T:誰先愛上他的
S:谁先爱上他的
P:Shéi Xiān Ài Shàng Tā De
Producer:Lu Shih-yuan
Cinematography:Lin Chih-peng
Editing:Lei Chen-ching
Music:DJ Didilong
Runtime:99 minutes
Country:Taiwan
Language:Mandarin
Budget:NT$35 million[1]
Gross:NT$65 million[2]

Dear Ex is a 2018 Taiwanese drama film directed by Mag Hsu and Hsu Chih-yen, from a screenplay by Lu Shih-yuan and Mag Hsu. It stars Roy Chiu, Hsieh Ying-xuan, Spark Chen, and Joseph Huang. It follows a teenager becoming trapped in the middle of a bitter feud between his willful mother and a free-spirited man, who is both the lover and insurance beneficiary of his recently deceased father.

The film had its world premiere at the 20th Far East Film Festival on 22 April 2018, and was theatrically released in Taiwan on 2 November 2018, by Warner Bros. It received generally positive reviews from critics and was selected as the Taiwanese entry for the Best International Feature Film at the 92nd Academy Awards, but it was not nominated.[3] [4] [5] [6] At the 55th Golden Horse Awards, it earned eight nominations, including Best Feature Film and Best Leading Actor (for Chiu), and won in three categories: Best Leading Actress (for Hsieh), Best Original Film Song (for "Bali Song"), and Best Film Editing. The film also won Best Narrative Feature, Best Actor (for Chiu), Best Actress (for Hsieh), and the Press Award at the 20th Taipei Film Awards.

Synopsis

When San-lian's ex-husband passes away, she discovers he has altered his insurance policy, cutting out their son in favor of a stranger named Jay. Outraged, San-lian decides that she and her son will confront Jay, but Jay proves equal to her scheme. However, when her son unexpectedly moves in with Jay, she is forced to reassess her relationship with them both.

Cast

Production

Screenwriter Mag Hsu and music video director Hsu Chih-yen both made their respective feature directorial debuts on Dear Ex.[7] The screenplay, written by Lu Shih-yuan and Mag Hsu, was based on the true story of a friend of Hsu's who found out that her husband was having an affair with a guy.[2]

Mag Hsu said about the film in a 2019 interview: "I truly believe that Dear Ex is not only an LGBT film; it involves more, all kinds of communities, a range of perspectives. This is why I feel that this film doesn't need to be labeled an LGBT film."[2]

Release

Dear Ex had its world premiere at the 20th Far East Film Festival on 22 April 2018, where audiences praised its heartfelt storyline and snappy graphics.[7] It was screened as the opening film of the 22nd Toronto Reel Asian International Film Festival on 8 November 2018, marking the first time the annual event has opened with a Taiwanese production.[8] The film was released in Taiwan on 12 November 2018, and on Netflix worldwide on 1 February 2019.[9] [10]

Reception

Critical response

Karen Han of The New York Times called Dear Ex "a remarkably affecting and cogent picture" and remarked, "At points, the film threatens to tip over into melodrama, but the directors Mag Hsu and Hsu Chih-yen always right the ship, balancing oversaturated flashbacks with a nuanced portrait of love that endures both trials and time."[11] Andrew Lapin of NPR opined, "The film may pale in comparison to The Cakemaker, which told its story with more nuance and sensory detail. But Dear Exs narrative hiccups and tonal missteps seem less blaring by the time it enters its affecting homestretch […]. Love in this movie is expressed in odd ways, but it is still genuine."[12] Wendy Ide of Screen Daily wrote, "This comic melodrama wrings every last drop of drama from the set up" and "The music choices and the production design compete for knowing kitsch, but there is nothing ironic about the emotional impact of the third act."[13] Joel Keller of Decider stated, "Dear Ex has good performances and a story that should be relatable to anyone who has gone through family problems as a kid."[14] Stephen McCarty of the South China Morning Post commented, "Dear Ex proves to be a work of redemption, reconciliation and forgiveness […]. And at its heart, it's a love story: nothing odd about that."[15]

Accolades

AwardCategoryRecipientsResult
3rd International Film Festival & Awards Macao Best Film Dear Ex
Mi Ying Spirit Movie Award
Best Feature Film
Best Leading Actor
Best Leading Actress Hsieh Ying-xuan
Press Award Dear Ex
Hsieh Ying-xuan
Joseph Huang
Mag Hsu and Hsu Chih-yen
Lu Shih-yuan and Mag Hsu
Best Original Film Song Lee Ying-hung (Bali Song)
Lei Cheng-ching
10th To Ten Chinese Films Festival Outstanding Film Dear Ex
Best Leading Actor
Best Leading Actress
19th Chinese Film Media AwardsBest Leading ActorRoy Chiu
Best Leading ActressHsieh Ying-xuan
Best New DirectorMag Hsu and Hsu Chih-yen

See also

Further reading

Notes and References

  1. News: Fu. Yi-wen. 28 November 2018. 《誰先愛上他的》訪問：你看到的都是垃圾桶裏撿回來的鏡頭. live. Initium Media. zh. https://web.archive.org/web/20231203064026/https://theinitium.com/article/20181128-culture-film-dearex-dearcaring. 3 December 2023. 2 March 2024.
  2. Hsu. Mag. Christopher Brown. "This Film Is Blessed by the Gods": Talking with Mag Hsu, Director of Dear Ex (Netflix, 2018). Bright Lights Film Journal. 25 October 2019. 5 March 2024.
  3. News: Strong. Matthew. 12 September 2019. Taiwan sends gay-themed comedy 'Dear Ex' to Oscars. live. Taiwan News. https://web.archive.org/web/20230616215012/https://www.taiwannews.com.tw/en/news/3774976. 16 June 2023. 2 March 2024.
  4. News: Davis. Rebecca. 12 September 2019. Taiwan Submits Golden Horse Award Winner 'Dear Ex' to Oscar Race. live. Variety. https://web.archive.org/web/20230616153745/https://variety.com/2019/film/news/taiwan-dear-ex-oscar-academy-award-1203334591/. 16 June 2023. 2 March 2024.
  5. News: Tartaglione. Nancy. 13 September 2019. Oscars: Mexico Selects 'The Chambermaid', Taiwan Opts For 'Dear Ex' In International Feature Race. live. Deadline Hollywood. https://web.archive.org/web/20230616113913/https://deadline.com/2019/09/oscars-mexico-the-chambermaid-taiwan-dear-ex-international-feature-film-category-1202733628/. 16 June 2023. 2 March 2024.
  6. News: Chu. Karen. 15 September 2019. Oscars: Taiwan Selects 'Dear Ex' for International Feature Film Category. live. The Hollywood Reporter. https://web.archive.org/web/20230616170150/https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/movies/movie-news/2020-oscars-taiwan-selects-dear-international-feature-film-category-1239706/. 16 June 2023. 2 March 2024.
  7. News: Lim. Paige. 10 May 2018. All is fair in love and war. live. Taipei Times. https://web.archive.org/web/20200220131146/http://www.taipeitimes.com/News/feat/archives/2018/05/10/2003692823. 20 February 2020. 5 March 2024.
  8. News: 9 November 2018. Award-winning Taiwan drama opens Toronto Asian film festival. Taiwan Today. 9 March 2024.
  9. News: Frater. Patrick. 23 January 2019. Netflix Buys Taiwan Black Comedy 'Dear Ex'. live. Variety. https://web.archive.org/web/20230329101436/https://variety.com/2019/film/asia/netflix-taiwan-black-comedy-dear-ex-1203116437/. 29 March 2023. 9 March 2024.
  10. News: Brzeski. Patrick. 24 January 2019. Netflix Picks Up Taiwanese Sleeper Hit 'Dear Ex'. live. The Hollywood Reporter. https://web.archive.org/web/20221126214127/https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/tv/tv-news/netflix-picks-up-taiwanese-sleeper-hit-dear-1178769/. 26 November 2022. 9 March 2024.
  11. News: Han. Karen. 6 February 2019. 'Dear Ex' Review: Heartbreaking and Heartwarming Family Dysfunction. live. The New York Times. https://web.archive.org/web/20231013070350/https://www.nytimes.com/2019/02/06/movies/dear-ex-review.html. 13 October 2023. 3 March 2024.
  12. News: Lapin. Andrew. 2 February 2019. 'Dear Ex': A Man Dies, Leaving Behind A Wife, A Son And A Secret Gay Lover. live. NPR. https://web.archive.org/web/20220922025146/https://www.npr.org/2019/02/02/689747686/dear-ex-a-man-dies-leaving-behind-a-wife-a-son-and-a-secret-gay-lover. 22 September 2022. 3 March 2024.
  13. News: Ide. Wendy. 10 December 2018. 'Dear Ex': Macao Review. live. Screen Daily. https://web.archive.org/web/20201029102240/https://www.screendaily.com/reviews/dear-ex-macao-review/5135159.article. 29 October 2020. 3 March 2024.
  14. News: Keller. Joel. 11 February 2019. Stream It Or Skip It: 'Dear Ex' On Netflix, Where A Teen Gets To Know His Late Father's True Love. live. Decider. https://web.archive.org/web/20221001150619/https://decider.com/2019/02/11/dear-ex-netflix-stream-it-or-skip-it/. 1 October 2022. 3 March 2024.
  15. News: McCarty. Stephen. 17 February 2019. Dear Ex on Netflix – award-winning Mandarin-language film explores family values in Taiwan. live. South China Morning Post. https://web.archive.org/web/20221207183059/https://www.scmp.com/magazines/post-magazine/arts-music/article/2186294/dear-ex-netflix-award-winning-mandarin-language. 7 December 2022. 3 March 2024.

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