Cold feet explained

Cold feet is a phrase that refers to a person not going through with an action, particularly one which requires long term commitment, due to fear, uncertainty, and doubt. A person is said to be "getting cold feet" when, after previously committing to a plan, they ultimately do not carry out the planned course of action.

Definitions (psychological)

• Apprehension or doubt strong enough to prevent a planned course of action.^[1]
• A loss or lack of courage or confidence; an onset of uncertainty or fear.^[2]
• To “have cold feet” is to be too fearful to undertake or complete an action.^[3]
• A wave of timidity or fearfulness.^[4]
• Loss or lack of courage or confidence.^[5]
• Timidity that prevents the continuation of a course of action.^[6]

Etymology

The origin of the term itself has been largely attributed to American author Stephen Crane, who added the phrase, in 1896, to the second edition of his short novel, .^[7] Crane writes, "I knew this was the way it would be. They got cold feet." The term is present in "Seed Time and Harvest" by Fritz Reuter published in 1862.^{[8] [9] [10]} Kenneth McKenzie, a former professor of Italian at Princeton University attributed the first use of the phrase to the play Volpone produced by Ben Jonson in 1605. The true origin and first usage of the phrase remains debated and unconfirmed as exemplified above.

Common uses

Marriage

A common use of the phrase is when people fear the commitment of marriage and get "cold feet" before a wedding ceremony.^[11] This premarital doubt or fear may manifest for a variety of reasons and sometimes cause the bride or groom to back out of a planned marriage.^[12] Original research on the "cold feet" phenomenon is very limited, but a four-year study conducted by UCLA researchers found feelings of premarital doubt or uncertainty about an impending marriage were associated with future marital problems and a viable predictor of divorce.^[13]

External links

• "Expert Advice on Cold Feet" – Article from Brides Magazine
• "Cold Feet Common in Brides-to-Be" ABC News Good Morning America, May 1, 2005

Notes and References

1. Web site: Cold feet - Definition. Merriam-Webster Dictionary. 22 December 2012.
2. Web site: Cold feet. Dictionary.com. 22 December 2012.
3. Web site: Cold feet definition. The American Heritage® New Dictionary of Cultural Literacy, Third Edition. Houghton Mifflin Company. 22 December 2012.
4. Web site: Spears. Richard. cold feet. Dictionary of American Slang and Colloquial Expressions. McGraw Hill. 22 December 2012.
5. Web site: Cold feet. Collins English Dictionary - Complete & Unabridged 10th Edition. William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd..
6. Web site: Cold feet. 22 December 2012.
7. Book: Barnhart, David K.. America in So Many Words: Words That Have Shaped America. 1997. Houghton Mifflin. Boston. 191. 0547563299.
8. Web site: Engber. Daniel. When Did We Get "Cold Feet"? The Germans had 'em first!. 24 December 2012.
9. Web site: Zoulas. Peter. Take Our Word For It, Issue 77. 24 December 2012.
10. Web site: Reuter. Fritz. Seed-time and Harvest. 24 December 2012.
11. Web site: Hutson. Matthew. Brides and Grooms: Cold Feet. 24 December 2012.
12. Web site: Bride's "Cold feet" May Predict Divorce. 24 December 2012.
13. Lavner. Justin. Benjamin Karney . Thomas Bradbury . Do Cold Feet Warn of Trouble Ahead? Premarital Uncertainty and Four-Year Marital Outcomes. Journal of Family Psychology. 2012. 26. 6. 1012–1017. 10.1037/a0029912. 3525794. 22946462.