| Bob Paris | |
| Birth Name: | Robert Clark Paris |
| Birth Date: | December 14, 1959 |
| Birth Place: | Columbus, Indiana |
| Spouse: | [1] |
| Website: | http://www.bobparis.com |
Bob Paris (born Robert Clark Paris on December 14, 1959) is an American writer, actor, public speaker, civil rights activist, and former professional bodybuilder. Paris was the 1983 NPC American National and IFBB World Bodybuilding Champion.[1] In 1989, he became the world's first male professional athlete to come out as gay in the media while still an active competitor in his sport.
Paris was born and grew up in Brown County and Columbus, Indiana. From an early age, he was both artistic and athletic. He won National Scholastic awards for his drawings and paintings and wrote short stories.[2] Paris was also involved in his school's debate team and a member of the International Thespian Society. Paris played several sports in high school: track and field, golf, and particularly football. After experimenting with weight training as a sophomore, Paris started to gain size and strength.[2]
He moved to southern California to pursue dreams of becoming a bodybuilder and actor. Within two years he had won two competitions: Mr. Los Angeles and Mr. Southern California.
Since rising to fame in the early 1980s, Bob Paris has appeared on the covers of scores of magazines worldwide. He is noted for his aesthetics and artistic approach toward the sport.
On October 10, 1998, he made his New York stage debut, starring at Carnegie Hall opposite Bea Arthur, Sandy Duncan, Michael Jeter, Philip Bosco, Alice Ripley, and Tyne Daly in the Broadway musical Jubilee as the character Mowgli.[3]
In the July 1989 issue of Ironman, Paris came out in the media as a gay man. He was the world's first male professional athlete, in any sport, to come out in the media while still an active competitor in his sport.[4] [5] That year, Paris appeared on The Oprah Winfrey Show to discuss marriage and being gay. Oprah asked Paris, "Bob, why not just stay in the closet?" Paris said "you fall in love" and it doesn't feel right to hide it.
Paris and his then-boyfriend, Rod Jackson, became symbols for gay marriage and advocated gay rights. Paris's career suffered for it; he lost about 80% of his bookings and endorsements for bodybuilding.[6] He has said he received death threats through mail and by phone.[7]
He became a dedicated advocate for the rights of athletes[8] and an outspoken voice in the push for drug testing at the professional level.
He retired from bodybuilding in 1991, but competed in the 1992 Chicago Pro Championships-IFFB, finishing 10th.
In 2006, Flex Magazine ranked Bob Paris the most aesthetic athlete in the history of bodybuilding.[9] [10]
In 2009, he performed in a recurring role on the first season of the ABC Television series, Defying Gravity.[11]
Paris remains a civil rights advocate and public speaker. He is also a model and a classically trained theater actor.
Paris and Jackson split up after seven years. Paris said that he kept trying to keep his relationship going even when he knew better; Paris felt that he would be giving gays a bad image if he and Jackson broke up.
In 2012, Paris wrote on his website that he never wanted to be a "lifestyle bodybuilder." He said he enjoyed the discipline and focus bodybuilding engendered; he also simply just excelled at the sport. To Paris, bodybuilding allowed him to be artistic and a jock all at once, and the sport allowed him to exert his physical presence to the world in a way that demonstrated that he was a man.
As of 2015, Paris was still active in fitness, but not as intensely as he once was, and saw himself more as a writer over anything else.[12]
Paris lives with his husband, Brian LeFurgey, on an island near Vancouver, British Columbia. He holds dual American and Canadian citizenship. Together since 1996, Paris and LeFurgey were married in British Columbia after the province equalized the marriage laws in 2003.
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Additional professional competition highlights:
(NPC = National Physique Committee / IFBB = International Federation of BodyBuilders)