Ashley Kirilow Explained

Ashley Anne Kirilow
Nationality:Canadian
Known For:Claiming to have cancer to defraud donors
Occupation:unknown

Ashley Anne Kirilow (born 1987) is a Canadian woman who raised money to aid cancer patients while pretending to have cancer herself.[1] [2] When Kirilow's fraud was made public, her story was republished around the world.[3]

Since her case became public, Kirilow's fraud has been cited as a cautionary example of the dangers posed by online fund-raising campaigns.[4]

Medical condition

In 2008 or 2009, Kirilow discovered a lump in her breast.[5]

According to the Toronto Sun, psychotherapist Marc Feldman, a professor of psychiatry at the University of Alabama, suggested the kind of lies Kirilow told were often a sign an individual was manifesting Münchausen Syndrome by internet.[6] [7]

Kirilow was one of the examples of a mentally ill suspect offered in the textbook Criminal Profiling: An Introduction to Behavioral Evidence Analysis.

When she was sentenced, in April 2011, as part of his explanation for her relatively lenient sentence, Justice Fred Forsyth noted how young her biological parents were when she was born.

Legal status

Kirilow was charged with several counts of fraud with one count of fraud of over $5,000.[8] [9] Kirilow and her supporters report receiving death threats.[10]

In November 2010, Kirilow pled guilty to defrauding Donna Michalowski, a woman who had raised almost $7,400 for Kirilow.[11] She surrendered to the police on August 6, 2010.[12]

Kirilow appeared several times in bail court during her first weeks in custody.Newspapers quoted former friends who explained that no one would post bail for her because everyone felt hurt and angry.[13] Kirilow's father explained that he had considered posting her bail, but had decided that she had lied too many times.On August 20, 2011, a recognizance of $5,000 was pledged, and she was released on bail with supervision by the John Howard Society.[14] [15] [16]

Kirilow's conditional sentence

The Winnipeg Free Press reported that Kirilow received a conditional sentence, no jail time.[17]

Kirilow was sentenced to 10 months of house arrest, followed by five months where she would have a curfew.

October 2011 shoplifting conviction

Kirilow was arrested by a grocery store security guard on October 7, 2011 for attempting to steal $11 worth of cold medicine.[18] [19] [20] She pleaded guilty two weeks later to theft under $5,000. She was sentenced to one further day in jail.Kirilow was still serving her conditional sentence from her fraud conviction when she stole from the grocery store.[21]

On November 10, 2011, she received an additional 30 days in jail for breaching terms of her conditional sentence.[22] Both the Toronto Sun and The Hamilton Spectator speculated that Kirilow's last conviction was a sign that underlying mental health issues were not being addressed.[19] [20]

Second accusation of parole violations

The Hamilton Spectator and CHCH TV reported that Kirilow appeared in court on February 8, 2012, for a second breach of her parole conditions.[23] [24]

On March 2, 2012, The Hamilton Spectator confirmed that her conditional sentence had been revoked.[25]

Fundraising activities

Kirilow's Facebook page described a charity she said she set up, entitled Change for the Cure.Kirilow appeared at benefit concerts, organized on her behalf.Kirilow visited children in hospital receiving cancer treatment.[26]

Commentators speculated about the effect her Facebook fraud would have on other charities' online donations.[2] [27] [28]

On October 13, 2010, Linda Nguyen reported on the efforts to raise funds for experimental treatment for Alexis Wronzberg, a young Toronto area woman who has a rare form of Leukemia.[29]

Kirilow has offered the explanation that she pretended to have cancer in order to make her family pay for an unhappy childhood.[2] [30] Kirilow's parents divorced when she was young.[31]

In addition to the funds she solicited, she accepted a vacation at Disneyworld from a charity that sponsored visits to the resort from those who were at risk of dying.[2] [32] Skateboard personality Rob Dyer's organization Skate4CancerfinancedKirilow's trip to Disneyworld.[31]

Case information

According to reports, Kirilow was working as a receptionist at the Sutton Group Results Realty Inc. office in September 2008. She later revealed to her co-workers that she had been diagnosed with cancer. Hence, Michalowski organized a fundraiser in February 2009 at the Burlington bar Club 54. The fundraiser collected $7000.[8]

Kirilow is also accused of further raising thousands of dollars for her own benefit through a charity called "Change for the Cure" on Facebook.[27] She had supposedly created the charity to fund cancer research. Kirilow told Toronto Star that she had lied about being terminally ill.[8]

Kirilow was released under the supervision of the John Howard Society.[33]

Kirilow faced three additional charges of fraud under $5,000 at her November 1 appearance.[5] She pleaded guilty to the one charge of fraud over $599. After her court appearance, while trying to explain the scrutiny which the Kirilow's case triggered, the lawyer said:

Kirilow mentioned in the context of similar frauds

On November 5, 2010, the week that Kirilow pleaded guilty, Ontario Police announced the arrest of Jessica Ann Leeder, a 21-year-old Huntsville, Ontario woman, who is also accused of using Facebook to solicit funds to treat a non-existent cancer.[34] [35] [36] [37]

In December 2011, Maclean's magazine listed Kirilow in a year-end summary article subtitled, "From Norway gunman Anders Behring Breivik to cancer fraudster Ashley Kirilow: portraits of evil".[38]

In 2012 and 2013, her case was compared with that of 29-year-old Calgary resident Kristopher Nicholas Cook, who falsely claimed to have brain cancer.[39] [40]

In 2013, Kirilow's case was compared with that of 35-year-old mother of three LeAnn Gorchinsky-Gripper, who falsely claimed she had ovarian cancer.[41]

See also

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Notes and References

  1. News: Ashley Kirilow vilified for alleged cancer charity scam . Digital Journal . 2010-08-09 . Stephanie Dearing . 2010-08-18 . Those in the know allege Kirilow made off with at least $20,000, an amount that under different circumstances would only merit the young woman a mention in the local newspaper after she'd been found guilty. But because Kirilow claims she faked cancer to get the money, her story has gone around the world. . dead . https://web.archive.org/web/20100820223617/http://www.digitaljournal.com/article/295735 . 2010-08-20.
  2. News: Are Cancer Fraudsters Desperate or Psychopathic? . . 2010-08-12 . Kim Carolco . 2010-08-18 . In an interview with the Toronto Star, she admitted to the hoax and said she did it to get attention and to get back at her family for her unhappy childhood. . dead . https://web.archive.org/web/20100815040817/https://abcnews.go.com/Health/MindMoodNews/ashley-kirilow-cancer-charity-fraudsters/story?id=11369697 . 2010-08-15.
  3. News: Apgavikų arsenale – ir mirties šešėlis . . 2010-10-10 . Lietuvos rytas . 2010-10-20 . https://web.archive.org/web/20101013061901/http://www.lrytas.lt/-12867134821286481987-apgavik%C5%B3-arsenale-ir-mirties-%C5%A1e%C5%A1%C4%97lis.htm . 2010-10-13 . dead.
  4. News: Crowdfunding for medical expenses . . 2012-01-05 . 2012-01-30 . There is always the possibility of abuse of Internet fundraising, as evidenced by the case of Ashley Kirilow of Burlington, Ontario, who in 2010 faked having cancer and used a Facebook page to help raise thousands of dollars. . dead . https://web.archive.org/web/20120111112956/http://www.cmaj.ca/site/earlyreleases/5jan12_crowdfunding-for-medical-expenses.xhtml . 2012-01-11.
  5. News: Ontario woman who faked cancer pleads guilty to fraud. The Globe and Mail. Ciara Byrne. 2010-11-02. 2010-11-06. https://web.archive.org/web/20101106102509/http://www.theglobeandmail.com/news/national/toronto/ontario-woman-who-faked-cancer-pleads-guilty-to-fraud/article1782497/. live. More than a year ago Ms. Kirilow found a lump in her breast and, suspecting the worst, had it removed, court heard Tuesday. The lump was benign but Kirilow began telling people she had cancer in an effort to make her parents feel bad, the Crown said..
  6. News: Accused cancer faker isn't alone . . 2010-08-18 . Joanne Richard . 2010-08-18 . Although there is clear evidence in the Kirilow case of malingering - lying about illness to get money – I would bet that the principal motive was an intangible one: to get attention, nurturance, care and concern that she felt unable to get in other ways. . dead . https://web.archive.org/web/20100815045356/http://www.torontosun.com/life/2010/08/13/15015526.html . 2010-08-15.
  7. News: Martha Nicholas, 42, Arrested After Allegedly Faking Cancer To Raise Money (VIDEO). Huffington Post. 2011-12-11. 2012-06-10. Nicholas isn't the only person to have allegedly faked cancer for financial gain. In 2010, Ashley Kirilow, a Canadian woman, pleaded guilty to one count of fraud after she lied about having cancer to raise money, according to CBC News..
  8. News: Cancer faker gets new charge: Kirilow's former co-worker says charge relates to fundraiser in Burlington, Ont.. CBC News. 2010-08-11. 2010-08-18. An Ontario woman accused of faking cancer in order to elicit donations for herself has been charged with an additional count of fraud over $5,000..
  9. News: Facebook-Schwindlerin verhaftet: Ashley (23) hatte gar keinen Krebs . . 2010-08-12 . 2010-08-12 . Sie rasierte sich den Kopf und die Augenbrauen, schrieb immer wieder traurige Botschaften auf Facebook. Die Masche zog: Ashley Kirilow soll über das Online-Netzwerk Facebook das Mitleid ihrer Mitmenschen ausgenutzt und sich nach Polizeiangaben mindestens 5000 kanadische Dollar erschlichen haben. Bisherige Unterstützer der Frau schätzen die erschwindelten Einnahmen sogar auf 20'000 kanadische Dollar! . German . dead . https://web.archive.org/web/20100818025723/http://www.blick.ch/news/ausland/ashley-23-hatte-gar-keinen-krebs-152890 . 2010-08-18.
  10. News: Ashley Kirilow, accused cancer faker, allegedly fielding death threats . . 2010-08-19 . Kevin Gallagher . 2010-09-04 . The number of threats in the community have raised concerns for everyone involved. . dead . https://archive.today/20130129131428/http://news.nationalpost.com/2010/08/19/ashley-kirilow-accused-cancer-faker-expected-to-be-out-on-bail-friday/#ixzz0x9LJQz9Y . 2013-01-29 .
  11. Web site: Woman pleads guilty to faking cancer to raise cash. ctvnews.ca. CTV News. 25 May 2016. Canada. English. 2 November 2010.
  12. News: No bail yet for woman who faked cancer . . 2010-08-09 . Jennifer Yang . 2010-09-04 . With no one willing to post her bail, Kirilow was remanded back into custody until her next court appearance on Wednesday. A publication ban has been placed on the proceedings. . dead . https://web.archive.org/web/20121022005954/http://www.thestar.com/news/gta/article/845546--woman-who-faked-cancer-remains-in-custody . 2012-10-22.
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  14. News: Bail granted to woman who admitted faking cancer . . 2010-08-20 . Jim Wilkes . 2010-09-04 . She is to be supervised by the John Howard Society and stay at the undisclosed location where the organization has arranged for her to live. She must also report to police and the John Howard Society weekly and she is not allowed to use and or possess a computer or cellphone. . dead . https://web.archive.org/web/20100824051708/http://www.thestar.com/news/gta/crime/article/850608--bail-granted-to-woman-who-admitted-faking-cancer . 2010-08-24.
  15. News: Accused cancer fraudster Ashley Kirilow granted bail . . 2010-08-20 . Kevin Gallagher . 2010-09-04 . Kirilow has said she has been diagnosed with bipolar disorder and suicidal tendencies. She and her supporters have faced threats of violence, even death. . dead . https://archive.today/20130620042640/http://news.nationalpost.com/2010/08/20/accused-cancer-fraudster-ashley-kirilow-granted-bail/ . 2013-06-20.
  16. News: Ashley Kirilow granted bail: John Howard Society steps up after nobody else did . . 2010-08-20 . 2010-10-20 . She must be supervised by the John Howard Society and live where the organization tells her to. She must also report to the police and the John Howard Society weekly and she is not allowed to use and or possess a computer or cellphone. . dead . https://web.archive.org/web/20120903014446/http://www.thespec.com/TheSpec/Article/250425 . 2012-09-03.
  17. News: No jail for woman who faked cancer: Under psychiatric care after pocketing donations . . 2011-08-03 . Both the Crown and the defence took more than an hour to argue reasons behind their recommendation for no jail time, citing Kirilow's mental state and her increasing need to seek attention after a troubled upbringing where she was shuffled between the homes of her separated parents and her grandparents for years. . Mary Gazze . dead . https://web.archive.org/web/20160304042126/http://www.winnipegfreepress.com/canada/no-jail-for-woman-who-faked-cancer-119461454.html . 2016-03-04.
  18. News: Ashley Kirilow to face shoplifting charges . . 2011-10-13 . 2011-12-28 . Police said the suspect was arrested around 3 p.m. Oct. 7 at a grocery store on Dundurn St. Police said she is charged with theft under $5,000 and possessing stolen property under $5,000. . Rob Lamberti . dead . https://web.archive.org/web/20111218134017/http://www.torontosun.com/2011/10/13/ashley-kirilow-to-face-shoplifting-charges . 2011-12-18.
  19. News: Cancer faker proves to be her own worst enemy: Charged with shoplifting, she's not getting the psychiatric help she needs . . 2011-10-14 . 2011-12-28 . But Ashley is more psychiatric patient than criminal. And like so many others with mental health issues, she has firmly wedged herself into a system where it is quicker and easier to get inside a jail cell than a psychiatrist's office. . dead . https://archive.today/20130620042747/http://www.thespec.com/news/local/article/609085--cancer-faker-proves-to-be-her-own-worst-enemy . 2013-06-20.
  20. News: Maybe Kirilow didn't get the help she needs . . 2011-10-14 . 2011-12-28 . And everyone had been so hopeful last spring. Were we misled yet again by this con artist? Or are we looking at a very ill young lady who keeps crying out for help — and isn't getting the treatment that she needs? . Michele Mandel . dead . https://web.archive.org/web/20140201223051/http://www.torontosun.com/2011/10/14/maybe-kirilow-didnt-get-the-help-she-needs . 2014-02-01.
  21. News: Fifteen days in jail for minor shoplifting crime . . 2011-10-22 . 2011-12-28 . Ashley Kirilow, the 24-year-old Burlington woman who received a 15-month conditional sentence in April for a fraud involving her faking cancer, was sentenced to one day of jail after pleading guilty Friday to theft under $5,000. . Ken Peters . dead . https://archive.today/20130620042821/http://www.thespec.com/news/local/article/613099--fifteen-days-in-jail-for-minor-shoplifting-crime . 2013-06-20.
  22. News: Judge firm but gentle with Kirilow: Convicted fraud artist gets 30 more days in jail . . 2011-11-10 . 2011-12-28 . Yet, like a stern but kind rebuke from a grandfather, a judge showed more concern and caring for Ashley Kirilow on Thursday than just about anybody has for a very long time. . Susan Clairmont . dead . https://web.archive.org/web/20111213000035/http://www.thespec.com/news/local/article/623194--judge-firm-but-gentle-with-kirilow . 2011-12-13.
  23. News: Cancer faker appears in Milton courthouse . . 2012-02-08 . 2012-02-29 . Cancer faker Ashley Kirilow appeared briefly in a Milton courthouse Monday for allegedly breaching her probation a second time. . dead . https://web.archive.org/web/20120612031806/http://www.thespec.com/news/local/article/666854--cancer-faker-appears-in-milton-courthouse . 2012-06-12.
  24. News: Kirilow appears in court for breach . . 2012-02-06 . 2012-02-29 . Melissa Ratlis . dead . https://archive.today/20120229214452/http://www.chch.com/index.php/home/item/6854-kirilow-appears-in-court-for-breach . 2012-02-29.
  25. News: Cancer faker Ashley Kirilow jailed for latest breach . . 2012-03-01 . 2012-03-24 . Defence counsel Kirstie Bloomfield, who noted Kirilow breached her house arrest conditions Jan. 30 by visiting her boyfriend, said her client will remain in jail until the end of May. . dead . https://archive.today/20130620042732/http://www.thespec.com/news/local/article/680574--cancer-faker-ashley-kirilow-jailed-for-latest-breach . 2013-06-20.
  26. News: Accused cancer fraudster faces new charge . . 2010-08-11 . 2010-08-19 . Care noted that Kirilow had visited small children in hospitals, an act that "upsets me no end." . bot: unknown . https://web.archive.org/web/20120325001214/http://toronto.ctv.ca/servlet/an/local/CTVNews/20100811/cancer-scam-court-appearance-100811/20100811?hub=Toronto . 2012-03-25 .
  27. News: Charities extend their reach online . . 2010-08-13 . Reka Szekely . 2010-08-18 . At worst there's the case of Ashley Kirilow, the Burlington woman accused of faking cancer and bilking thousands of dollars from people eager to support her. Ms. Kirilow is accused of posting pictures of herself bald and with plucked eyebrows and eyelashes on her Facebook group for an alleged bogus charity called "Change" for a cure. Reading about the allegations against Ms. Kirilow is disheartening and inevitably leaves people feeling jaded about charitable organizing via social media. . dead . https://web.archive.org/web/20110718042817/http://newsdurhamregion.com/opinion/article/159923 . 2011-07-18.
  28. News: Woman charged in cancer fraud out on bail . . 2010-08-20 . Kevin Gallagher . 2010-09-04 . Bob Muck, the heavily tattooed man who appeared at Kirilow's bail hearing on Thursday, was not at yesterday's proceedings and has withdrawn his intent to post her bail. . dead . https://archive.today/20130620042739/http://news.nationalpost.com/2010/08/20/man-may-post-bail-for-woman-charged-in-cancer-fraud/%23ixzz0xB4adSKf . 2013-06-20 .
  29. News: Family looking for help to raise $300,000 for experimental treatment. Toronto Sun. 2010-10-13. Linda Nguyen. 2010-10-20. Rick Wronzberg said the family was worried that people wouldn't want to give after the recent high-profile case of a Ashley Kirilow, a 21-year-old Burlington, Ont., woman facing fraud charges for allegedly pretending to have cancer to raise funds. They appear to have been proven wrong. A spokeswoman with the Canadian Cancer Society could not say if donations to cancer charities have lagged in light of the recent fraud case. She urged people who make donations to check a charity's status and to check out where their donations are being sent..
  30. News: Kirilow blames cancer charity scam on miserable childhood . . 2010-08-07 . Brendan Kennedy . 2010-08-19 . The 23-year-old woman who faked having cancer, ran a bogus charity and scammed hundreds of people of at least $13,000, says she did it to get back at her parents for a miserable childhood. 'I took it as an opportunity to make my family feel bad for how I was treated,' she said. . dead . https://web.archive.org/web/20120914004202/http://www.thestar.com/news/gta/article/845045--miserable-childhood-blamed-for-cancer-charity-scam . 2012-09-14.
  31. News: Woman faked cancer to raise money . . 2010-08-06 . Brendan Kennedy . 2010-03-16 . Skate4Cancer's involvement with Ms. Kirilow was based solely on fulfilling what the organization believed to be a legitimate final wish from a terminally ill individual. . dead . https://web.archive.org/web/20100821103956/http://www.thestar.com/news/gta/article/844614--woman-faked-cancer-to-raise-money . 2010-08-21.
  32. News: Ont. woman faked cancer for cash, Disney trip: report . . 2010-08-08 . 2010-09-05 . She befriended different local groups and recruited volunteers to help her organize events and benefit concerts in her own honor, and even convinced a cancer awareness organization — Skate4Cancer — to fly her to Disney World to fulfill what she said was a dying wish. All told, she raised C$20,000 ($19,400), volunteers said. . live . https://archive.today/20100905141819/http://www.montrealgazette.com/life/food-wine/Avocado+Crepe+Rolls/2375150/Keep+light+packed+with+flavour+your+holiday+table/2321435/woman+faked+cancer+cash+Disney+trip+report/3374586/story.html . 2010-09-05.
  33. News: Kirilow 'cancer' case in court . . 2010-10-01 . Tim Whitnell . 2010-10-20 . Ashley Kirilow was not in Milton assignment court on Wednesday morning, but her lawyer, Oakville's Brendan Neil, represented her in court for the first time since Kirilow's bail hearing in late August, an event that attracted massive media coverage. . dead . https://web.archive.org/web/20101108070831/http://www.insidehalton.com/news/court/article/881366--kirilow-cancer-case-in-court . 2010-11-08.
  34. News: Timmins woman accused of faking cancer to get money . . 2010-11-07 . 2011-07-17 . https://web.archive.org/web/20110717061827/http://www.timminstimes.com/ArticleDisplay.aspx?e=2833769 . dead . The story is similar to that of Ashley Anne Kirilow, a Southern Ontario woman who earlier this year admitted to police she faked cancer symptoms and collected more than $7,000 from sympathetic friends and supporters. The case shocked and upset many people, especially those with friends and family members truly struggling with cancer. . 2010-11-08.
  35. News: Second woman accused of faking cancer for money. Toronto Sun. 2010-11-07. 2010-11-08. https://web.archive.org/web/20101108221758/http://www.torontosun.com/news/canada/2010/11/07/16016236.html. live. In August another Ontario woman was caught scamming hundreds of people out of a total of $7,400 by pretending to have cancer. Twenty-three-year-old Ashley Anne Kirilow from Burlington pled guilty to one count of fraud over $5,000 last week..
  36. News: Second Ontario woman alleged to have faked cancer. CTV News. 2010-11-06. 2012-03-25. https://web.archive.org/web/20120325001506/http://toronto.ctv.ca/servlet/an/local/CTVNews/20101106/fake-cancer-101106/20101106/?hub=TorontoNewHome. live. The arrest comes days after Ashley Kirilow, of Burlington, admitted in court that she faked terminal cancer and kept thousands of dollars from sympathetic donors..
  37. News: Ontario woman faces charges in cancer fraud. Winnipeg Free Press. Tobi Cohen. 2010-11-07. A16. 2011-06-14. https://web.archive.org/web/20110614175551/http://www.winnipegfreepress.com/canada/ontario-woman-faces-charges--in-cancer-fraud-106844693.html?viewAllComments=y. live. Days after a woman admitted in court that she faked cancer to play on the sympathies of those around her and cheat them out of their money, police in Ontario are accusing yet another young woman of the running the same scam..
  38. News: Villains: Meet the shame gang . . 2011-12-06 . 2011-12-28 . Canada saw a wave of cancer fraudsters this year, including their photogenic queen, Ashley Kirilow of Burlington, Ont., who was convicted of raising $12,000 from unsuspecting marks. Kirilow's artistry fell far short of Douglas Clark's, however. The Port Coquitlam, B.C., man reportedly claimed to be an ex-admiral needing cancer treatment in the U.S. and is said to have raised $460,000 from just two friends. Meanwhile, in St. Catharines, Ont., Michelle Clemmer-Meller is accused of using false cancer claims to scam $200,000. . Colby Cosh . Aaron Wherry . amp .
  39. News: Alleged brain cancer fraudster back in Calgary to be charged. Calgary Sun. Katie Schneider. 2012-09-15. https://archive.today/20150313060130/http://www.torontosun.com/2012/09/15/alleged-brain-cancer-fraudster-back-in-calgary-to-be-charged. 2015-03-13. 2015-03-12. dead. The case has been likened to one in Ontario where Ashley Kirilow received 10 months house arrest and 100 hours community service for shaving her head and lying about having the disease in order to solicit donations and hold fundraising events..
  40. News: Calgary Cancer Faker Kristopher Cook Ordered To Pay Canadian Cancer Society $7,500, Sentenced To Six Months In Jail. Huffington Post. 2013-01-11. 2015-03-12. Last year, Ashley Kirilow of Hamilton, Ont., pleaded guilty to fraud after admitting she raised $12,000 in donations by convincing people that she had cancer. Kirilow was given a 15-month conditional sentence and was ordered to complete 100 hours of community service..
  41. News: Grimsby cancer faker says her motives were not financial. Hamilton Spectator. 2013-04-01. February 27, 2016. Three years ago, 24-year-old Ashley Kirilow, of Burlington, pleaded guilty to two counts of fraud for deliberately scamming people out of thousands of dollars after lying about a terminal cancer diagnosis..

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