Arrange Me a Marriage explained

Runtime:60 minutes
Starring:Aneela Rahman
Country:United Kingdom
Network:BBC2
First Aired: (Pilot)
(Series)

Arrange Me a Marriage is a British reality TV series, for which the pilot episode aired on BBC2 in March 2007;[1] while the first of five series episodes aired on 22 November 2007.[2]

Background

It was Aneela Rahman's sister, Sidra Khan, who developed the idea with the MD of betty television, Liz Warner. Sidra was working at betty TV as a senior development producer, when Liz Warner showed her a 4 line idea about a Jewish or Muslim marriage broker who could "arrange" marriages for non-Muslims/Jews. Sidra travelled to Glasgow and shot a taster tape of Aneela. Sidra tried to pitch her sister to the head of BBC Entertainment, Elaine Bedell and Mirella Breda. Debi Allen took Aneela on as a client.

Format

British singletons in their mid-30s are found partners using the principles of Asian arranged marriage. Aneela Rahman, a Glasgow based British-Asian marriage arranger, described as the "British Asian Cilla Black,"[3] gets their family and friends to network together and find the perfect partner in a four-week period.

Rahman believes that the divorce rate in Britain would decline if more couples were matched up through class, education, family background, life goals and earnings:

"For many non-Asians meeting someone is quite random, in a bar or club – but you wouldn’t buy a house or car drunk so why would you expect to find a life partner like that? Then people wake up 20 years later and wonder why they haven't found someone to settle down with."[3]
Each episode tracks the friends and family of five contestants/singletons, who have four weeks to network on their behalf and find the perfect partner. After Rahman has vetted and met the potential matches, the contestant/singleton is given a choice of two potential matches,[4] from which with the guidance of their family and a brief biography – but no photograph – they choose one match. Each episode culminates in an Asian-style introduction party, where the contestant/singleton meets their chosen match together with both sets of family and friends. The episodes end with updates on how the matches are or are not getting on.[5]

Aneela Rahman, born in Scotland to immigrant Pakistani parents,[6] met her husband Maqsood when she was 25 through an arranged marriage – they married 18 months later. The couple have been married for 15 years, have two children.

Notes and References

  1. Web site: Sarfraz Manzoor . 22 November 2007 . https://web.archive.org/web/20080111102339/http://www.sarfrazmanzoor.co.uk/articles/index.php?id=46 . 11 January 2008 . dead .
  2. http://news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/entertainment/7069165.stm 'Arranged marriage' show for BBC
  3. http://entertainment.timesonline.co.uk/tol/arts_and_entertainment/tv_and_radio/article2759341.ece Arranged marriage methods to be used by TV dating show
  4. https://www.mirror.co.uk/showbiz/tv/todaystv/2007/11/22/arrange-me-a-marriage-89520-20144629/ Arrange Me a Marriage
  5. News: Mangan . Lucy . 2007-11-23 . Last night's TV: Arrange Me A Marriage . en-GB . The Guardian . 2023-11-15 . 0261-3077.
  6. http://news.independent.co.uk/media/article3109882.ece 'Asian Cilla Black' brings arranged marriages to TV