Alan Selby Explained

Alan Selby (1929–2004), born Alan Henry Sniders, was an English-born American gay businessman and leader in the San Francisco leather community.^[1] He was known by many as "the Mayor of Folsom Street".^[2] He claimed to have created the first hanky code with his business partners at Leather 'n' Things in 1972, when their bandana supplier inadvertently doubled their order and the expanded code would help them sell the extra colors they had received.^[3] However, other sources dispute this being the origin of the hanky code.^[4]

Biography

Alan Selby was born as Alan Henry Sniders in Yorkshire, England. He was a member of the Royal Navy.

He moved to San Francisco in 1979 to found the fetish clothing manufacturer Mr. S Leather.^[2] At one point, the company was operated by Judy Tallwing McCarthey.^{[5] [6]}

Selby co-founded and fundraised for the San Francisco AIDS Emergency Fund, which was founded in 1982.^{[7] [8]} Following the death of his partner, Peter Jacklin, from AIDS in 1987, Selby became a prominent figure in the community response against the AIDS epidemic.

Selby died from complications of emphysema at the age of 75 in May 2004 in San Francisco.^[1] In 2019, an exhibition at the GLBT Historical Society Museum celebrated Selby's life and legacy.^[9]

Awards and legacy

• In 1988, Selby was awarded the Steve Maidhof Award for National or International Work by the National Leather Association International.^[7]
• In 1989, he received the Man of the Year Award as part of the Pantheon of Leather Awards.^[10]
• In 1999, he and Leonard Dworkin received the Forebear Award as part of the Pantheon of Leather Awards.^[10]
• In 2004, Selby received the Lifetime Achievement Award as part of the Pantheon of Leather Awards.^[10]
• In 2013, Selby was posthumously inducted into the Leather Hall of Fame.^[11]
• In 2017, Selby was honored along with other notables, named on bronze bootprints, as part of San Francisco South of Market Leather History Alley.^{[12] [13]}

Notes and References

1. Web site: Alan Selby -- beloved leader in leather community / 'Daddy Alan' is remembered for gregarious, generous spirit. Guthrie. Julian. 2004-05-11. SFGate. 2019-05-17.
2. Web site: The Mayor of Folsom Street: The Life and Legacy of Alan Selby. GLBT Historical Society. en-US. 2019-05-17.
3. Book: Jones, Jordy. 2017. The Mayor of Folsom Street, The Auto/Biography of "Daddy Alan" Selby aka Mr. S. Fair Page Media LLC. 978-0-9989098-0-6. 61–62.
4. Book: Fischer, Hal . 1977 . Gay Semiotics ♂ . San Francisco . NFS Press . 0-917986-03-2 . In San Francisco, the signs began appearing around 1971. The Trading Post, a department store specializing in erotic merchandise, began promoting handkerchiefs in the store and printing cards with their meanings. The red and blue handkerchiefs and their significance were already in existence, and meanings were assigned to other colors as well. . 2020-04-13 . 2019-10-18 . https://web.archive.org/web/20191018053832/http://www.queerculturalcenter.org/Pages/HalPages/GaySempg2.html . dead .
5. Web site: Program from the Creating Change Conference, National LGBTQ Task Force, January 15–19 2020 . 2020-12-27 . 2020-06-01 . https://web.archive.org/web/20200601135808/https://www.creatingchange.org/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/CC20_Program.pdf . dead .
6. https://twitter.com/mrsleather?lang=en Mr. S. Leather Twitter bio
7. Web site: List of winners . NLA International . 2019-03-14 . 2020-04-17 . 2020-01-03 . https://web.archive.org/web/20200103035305/http://nla-international.com/list-of-winners-2.html . dead .
8. Web site: The New Heart to Heart: the newsletter of the AIDS Emergency Fund; Summer 1997; Awards Dinner . Bolerium.com . 2001-09-11 . 2020-04-17.
9. Web site: Laird . Cynthia . May 10, 2019 . News Brief: Exhibit to highlight leather daddy Selby . 2019-05-17 . The Bay Area Reporter . en.
10. Web site: Pantheon of Leather Awards All Time Recipients - The Leather Journal. www.theleatherjournal.com. 2020-09-22. 2020-12-28. https://web.archive.org/web/20201228055005/https://www.theleatherjournal.com/pantheon-awards/recipients. dead.
11. Web site: Monique Von Cleef, Alan Selby and Dom Orejudos (Etienne) inducted into Leather Hall of Fame. 14 May 2013. The Leather Journal. 2019-05-20.
12. Web site: Ringold Alley's Leather Memoir . Public Art and Architecture . 2017-07-17 . 2019-11-23.
13. News: Paull . Laura . Honoring gay leather culture with art installation in SoMa alleyway . J . JWeekly.com . 2018-06-21 . 2019-11-23.